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Submitted by Raggles on Sat, 03/28/2015 - 1:58pm

SO has been given notice on his house and has to move out in 2months. Funny how that has happened one month after i moved out!
In one respect i feel sorry for him amd SD15 as they have settled there. I dont feel sorry for SD17!
She is going to love having to repack (NOT) but what she will enjoy is being in charge of moving as SO will let her take over amd gives him an easy life.
When will he learn she is his daughter and NOT the wife???

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Submitted by BarkAtTheMoon on Sat, 03/28/2015 - 2:00pm

Mini-wife alert! I have one as well, with SD19. All talk and no action. As long as they think they are in control. FFS lol

~ Moon

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Submitted by Raggles on Sat, 03/28/2015 - 2:07pm

Ive decided for the next 2 years.... she will be 19 nearly 20 ... he can cope/deal with her and im keeping my mouth shut. She has already started to show her true colours to him. I keep saying... well you allow it!!! Start parenting.
We will continueto date and then after that he will then need to make a decision. Be a man with balls and stand up to her or im gone completely out of his life.

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Submitted by BarkAtTheMoon on Sat, 03/28/2015 - 2:31pm

I find myself repeating, "You need to be more of a father than a friend" over and over. SD19 is a big helpless baby. The SDs' BM died two years ago. Where is the BM to your skids?

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Submitted by Raggles on Sun, 03/29/2015 - 3:52am

BM is a waste of space.
Since their separation & divorce the 3 eldest have nothing to do with her. She just isnt interested, never fought to see them amd they have seen her true colours. They only see BM on birthdays if she can be bothered and xmas! This year they spent 3 hrs with her for xmas on boxing day and they all said it was only to collect presents!
Over the last year SD15 has been spending on average one saturday a month with BM again to see what she can get out of her. This is the first year she BM invited SD15 on holiday in the summer which SD15 has agreed to go. BM didnt invite her other 2 children though.
I think if they regularly saw their mum and SO and I had eowe on our own things may have been better and i could have tolerated living together. But we never get a break, NEVER.

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Submitted by Raggles on Mon, 03/30/2015 - 1:21pm

Sally that WAS mean!!!!
Who knows what will happen. They defintely wont be moving in with me my house is too small Smile
There is the possibility they might move further away. At present we are an hour apart so any further will cause an issue. There is no chance of them going to BM but i would so laugh if SO cant find anywhere in next month or so and i suggested he dropped them off to her. Both her and skids would have a heart attack!!!!!
We looked at a nice house on friday but SO wont make a decision and its not my problem.
What is the saying... can lead a horse to water.....etc