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Karma is a bitch! And I'm just sassy.

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Submitted by hangingbyathread6 on Wed, 02/25/2015 - 11:49am

So with the supposed breakdown of my exH's relationship with the gf, it would appear his life is taking another tumble down the slippery slope he started on.

She has suspicions of him lying and cheating. She is apparently moving out. I had my doubts if that was really going to happen, however, I get this text from ex yesterday.

ExH: Can you give me BS8 SSN? I can't find it so I can do my taxes. I get to claim him and BD12 this year right? And I don't think I'll be going on the hockey trip (BD's state final championship). I won't be ale to afford it anymore. I'm probably going to have to move to a place I can afford by myself now too.

Me: (completely perplexed on why he feels the need to give me so much information and that he perceives I would care) Okay. That's a lot of information in one text. I will get you BS's SSN when I get home from work.

Here's where I get a little sassy...but it was too tempting and he has it coming for thinking I give a shit about his circumstances.

Me: As for the hockey trip, that's fine, but the rooms are $79.99/night and I know Cuntree (BM...DH's exW) was looking for someone to share a room with if you're interested and that will help. (So mean...but they act all buddy buddy when they are trying to conspire to cause problems for DH and I)

And then I went on to say:

Me: And I don't know what you're looking for in a house, but I have a really nice home with a new furnace, new water service, and fully remodeled kitchen and bathroom I could rent you.

This would be the house we shared while married. He gave it up in the divorce on the condition that I let him keep the new house he purchased hastily not realizing it would be half mine since the divorce hadn't been finalized. I love it when Karma comes around and kicks the people in the ass who deserve it. I love it more when you get to watch it happen!

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Submitted by Totalybogus on Wed, 02/25/2015 - 1:01pm

The marriage is over. Why are you kicking him when you know he's down? That's not Karma.

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Submitted by hangingbyathread6 on Wed, 02/25/2015 - 1:47pm

I was offering him solutions to the problems he has created. They may not be ideal to him, but solutions none the less. I am renting our former home, and it would be completely affordable for him on his own. He could room with DH's exW who is my exH's best bud when they need to conspire to try to cause issues or work on ways to get in to a court room.

Karma is his life falling down around him yet again, because he still can't keep his pecker where it belongs, or be honest and truthful in life. So his never ending "poor poor me, I don't know why she left me and my life is so tough" doesn't fly when you keep doing it to yourself.

He made my world crash down around me when he was cheating and walked out on me with a 6, 4, and 8 month old. He lied and lied, and is still lying. I had the wind kicked right out of me, but after a good cry I pulled myself up and took care of my kids. Him stopping by acting like he was "helping" me out by giving me a few bucks to buy diapers or formula, asking if I wanted to go upstairs, his non stop trying to get me back in the sack, even after my DH was in the picture, his PAS campaigns, all of it. I am standing here, happily married (with tension of course, everybody has it), with a beautiful family, my kids are happy, I have everything I need and then some...while he is struggling to still get his shit together because he never had to take care of himself. His shit gave me a beautiful shot at a beautiful life...his shit gave him nothing but shit...and I am enjoying it.

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Submitted by Totalybogus on Wed, 02/25/2015 - 3:09pm

I do understand where you're coming from and I do believe that those types get their just desserts. However, I believe that is a conversation best discussed on another site.

You're looking at it though the eyes of an ex-wife and a BM. I often wonder how people can wear so many different hats, one minute frying the bitch BM and the next being the BM, but one the ex-husband deserves.

Point is that maybe the other BMs still harbor resentment for the ex-husbands and that is why they have become psyco BM.

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Submitted by hangingbyathread6 on Fri, 02/27/2015 - 9:02am

Oh my ex hisband does NOT deserve me one bit! And I am both a SM and BM. And I believe many others are here too.

I'm simply saying that he is getting what he has coming to him. I don't have to play nice. I am not a psycho BM. I am not involved in me ex's life whatsoever. HE texted ME looking for sympathy...I don't give a flying fuck what goes on in his life as long as my kids aren't endangered. This text came because HE didn't have the balls to stand up to gf regarding her daughter doing drugs in the house when my kids were going to be there. So I had to send the cops over there (upon his request and to protect myself from violating the custody order). That doesn't make me a psycho BM, that makes me a responsible parent.

I deal with a psycho BM. And a deadbeat exH. While I have a blended family of five kids who all live primarily with me and my DH. I think this site is exactly for this type of thing. Sorry if you disagree.

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Submitted by AllySkoo on Fri, 02/27/2015 - 9:19am

I loved your response to him! Smile

As for whether this site is "for that sort of thing", I am perplexed. I've seen posts on Ebola, the Walking Dead, recipes, exercise regimens, computer issues, the weather, BDSM, and where to go on vacation. People have even posted about their bio kids and current DH, non-step related. Seems a little disingenuous to say, "Sure, you can talk about all that, but ex husbands are off limits!"

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Submitted by hangingbyathread6 on Wed, 02/25/2015 - 1:48pm

You never look to your ex for sympathy...ESPECIALLY when your actions are what made them become an ex. You open yourself to being fair game!

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Submitted by hangingbyathread6 on Fri, 02/27/2015 - 9:04am

My gf's and I came up with "cuntree" because she always walks around with a big camouflaged jacket on. The woman has never hunted. Not once. She buys all kinds of camo apparel (hats, mitts, shirts) to try to impress boyfriend I think. And she's as wide as a Mack truck so she can don all the camo she wants....there is no hiding her! She does nothing, I mean nothing, to make herself look at all attractive or even clean. Greasy stringy hair all the time, doesn't wear her glasses so she constantly has her eyes squinted and face all screwed up while she tries to see.

One of my girlfriends said it and we lost it, and that has been her nickname since! Lmao. I like it!

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Submitted by hangingbyathread6 on Fri, 02/27/2015 - 9:05am

Thanks Dtzy...it was just too perfect to not take advantage of. He opened himself by texting me his "poor pitiful me" shit and I don't care

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Submitted by hangingbyathread6 on Fri, 02/27/2015 - 9:06am

Sally, I have wondered if she's on here. And if we have given her that advice. Lol.

Currently she's still there...apparently she has no place to go at the moment. It's 50 shades of dysfunction over there!