Talked to a computer customer of mine last night on a side job. She's well into her seventies; still working, most likely out of necessity; biodad, her husband, is retired. She is the second wife of a guy who has, now GREAT grand kids. This guy went through the whole Parental Alienation route by his ex-wife, the 300 lb BM who he STILL writes an alimony check to every month!

Well it seems the SGD is once again "disowning" SM, aka SGM, I'll call her "Judy" for clarity. Judy has been married to this guy for DECADES; far longer than he was married to his first wife, the BM.

Judy went through the whole gamut. She has children from her previous marriage who were held to a different (double)standard by her husband. Who also went through a long period of guilt parenting to his own kids which ended up in them PASing out for a VERY long time, until they became adults and they CAME BACK. :barf:

So now, far too late I might add, her husband is finally sticking up for Judy. And this is causing turmoil to say the least. Judy allowed her ne'er do well SGD back in her house and she just ended up procreating with a bum. And because daddykins won't take SGD's side on this, SGD is now shunning Judy and withholding access to SGGD!!

So there you have it. It NEVER ends with these step situations when the BM is still alive. So ladies, get OUT while you STILL CAN!!! (early and once and for all)