Our 2nd BS was just born and I'm head over heels for him.

I've got my kids and my relationship with DH is great, our anniversary is coming up and everything is just going so well.

Of course now is the perfect time for BM to act like a super bitch and try to stir up shit with DH. They spent time yesterday fighting over text and it ended with a phone call. BM wants to whine that DH just doesnt spend enough time with SD.. he always offers to spend more time but shes gotta give a little which means her driving half way (they live 1hr+ away) but shell never do it.

DH wanted me to talk about all this with him and give my opinion. I just sat there said I wasnt going to get into it. I cant stand the unneeded drama and her getting upset (again) because we had another baby. I'm sure SD went home last weekend and told BM how cute he was and how much she loved holding him etc.. but damn I really dont care to hear about it.

DH has never really been involved with SDs school and appointments so I just want to roll my eyes when he acts concerned that SD hasnt been to the dentist or missed a checkup that she told him she had.

AH just wish theyd disappear.. at what age are girls no longer interested in hanging out with dad?