I have never done pick up or drop off for SS6 in the 5 plus years we have been married. I wasn't even supposed to be meeting BM. It was supposed to be her husband. I was stupid enough to take mil along as I had an appointment. Her husband was supposed to meet me at 3 at a certain spot. He never showed and of course ALL BM phones were cut off due to non payment. We were an hour and a half a way from home. I figure I'll just head home and let my DH handle it later right ? NOPE I let myself be bullied by MIL into going to her house to pick up SS. I had just received bad news from doctor I really just wanted to go home. Those who know me know what kind of medical stuff I have been dealing with. So I head to her house. She calls DH when I'm about 30 minutes into my already over an hour drive and almost to her house. She's not happy but she's getting him ready. I decide I'm going to record just in case. I don't understand wth happened honestly. She puts him in the car. I'm about to take off. She starts ranting and raving about everything under the sun.

Then she starts asking about money. She gets child support through the state. I'm not giving her any money. I think she was talking about school money. She decided to yank SS OUT OF SCHOOL this year to home school him. she's pissed that DH is involved in his schooling and this is her attempt to alienate some more. DH s lawyer told him not to pay said school money since she has decided unilaterally to home school him even though they share custody. She is always insisting she has full custody. I don't know if she lost her papers or if she's just that stupid. She does this all the time. She's also yelling at me about DH taking him to the beach out of town for the day. The papers say parents will NOTIFY if going out of town OVERNIGHT. IT WASN'T OVERNIGHT. It was for the day. She insists he has to have permission to EVER go out of town. Again . . Lost papers or stupid ? Once she sees she's not getting MONEY. . This wonderful christian decides she's going to try and pull her son out of my moving vehicle. I locked my doors and took off with her in a pile of dirt honestly. Nice to see . . Not my best choice. . . But with how she was acting I was literally scared to leave SS with her. I didn't say much . . She just ranted like a crazy person . .all on tape . .

So now she's really pissed. I go ahead and call the cops myself. I go to the police station file a report. I show them the video. They talk to SS. They said absolutely made the right decision taking him. She put him in the car. And SS said he was scared of his mom at the moment. They said no problems take him home right decision. I know it wasn't . I should never have allowed myself around her. DH agrees and feels really bad. He's actually got his balls and she only pulled this because I was there. Never again. But now she's saying her lawyer says if she doesn't get the money she has full right to withold visitation. We all know this is wrong and you can go months without paying actual child support. But now DH has to drop off today. It should be interesting.