My DH and I filed paperwork to either stop BM from moving the Skids again or she can move and we would get custody with her having visitation. Seems simple to me. Wrong! I should have known that this wasn't going to be easy. All we wanted for the skids was a stable home where they didn't have to keep starting over. If she can provide that then great but she moves homes and schools every couple of years. Everytime they move they I can see a change in them. Everytime she takes us to court its for more money and then she always throws it in my face that she doesn't need DH's money. That her new husband makes plenty of money. Whatever. So my DH got papers from her lawyer with a counter motion. It states that DH owes her $5412. What the f***! I thought that she didn't need DH's money! When DH and BM got divorced he was ordered to pay spousal support for 5 yrs even if she got married again. So in 2006 when we went to court they ordered him to start making payments to a payment center, so he did. It took my DH 6 yrs to pay it off and we thought it was over. Now BM's laywer is saying that everything DH payed before the payment center should be repayed. How did this turn into money instead what's best for the kids? I really am losing my cool and want to scream. We have a family and a home too. I feel so lost and helpless. I hope the judge can see what's best for the kids and not a bunch of worthless money crap. The money she wants isn't even for the kids. Its for herself. What a worthless mother she is.