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SD8 FINALLY got her ass tore up this morning!!!!!!!

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Submitted by Accordn2L on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 8:22am

Ok so you guys know she's been pissing all over my bathroom, not wiping, smearing shit on the walls. I finally put my foot down yesterday to SO and said unless my dog had an accident my days of cleaning up piss and shit were DONE! All on him now, his circus, his monkey! He gave the same blank look SD8 does! So he goes and has a "pep talk" with SD8 last night about the same shit I've been telling her for two years, like I guess if DAAAADDDDDDYYYY says it then she will just get it. I was listening outside the door rolling my eyes thinking I could slap him right now. And I could hear her saying ok DAAAADDDY I will not have anymore problems I promise, LOOOVOOEEEE YOUUUUU

So IDK if I've mentioned that SD8 gets up at 4:30am regardless of what time she goes to bed at night. However she knows that until everyone else is up and stirring she needs to stay in her room and watch cartoons or something. So I get up at 5:30 to start getting ready for work and walk past the kids bathroom and the light is on (I have to stay on her to turn a damn light off when she leaves a room too constantly) so I peaked in there, piss on the toilet, all in the toilet, and no toilet paper or flush. So once again she is wearing pissy panties. I didn't touch anything. I got the bleach and paper towels and went into our bedroom and threw on the light and woke SO up and said you have a clean up on aisle one, good morning! Handed him the cleaning supplies and walked out.

Needless to say he was pissed I woke up him like that but OH WELL. So he goes and gets SD8 out of her bedroom and takes her in the bathroom, I can hear his voice being loud and all the sudden I hear a spanking and crying! I was like SWEET JESUS is she finally getting a spanking? In two years I've never seen it! She goes straight to her room crying and he comes out and I swear he looked like he was going to cry too. I just kept walking and on the inside I was laughing my ass off! I wonder if SO feels any different today since he actually found his balls?

So I guess I'm evil for laughing at the kid getting a spanking but it was well deserved and today this step-monster is laughing hard!

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Submitted by tabby yabba do on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 8:28am

You inconvenienced him and made his child's problem, well HIS problem. Good! It is the only way things have the possibility of changing.

Here's hoping you have a pee-free Thursday!!! Smile

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Submitted by Delilah on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 8:37am

:jawdrop: :jawdrop: wtf is your OH thinking allowing her to act like that for allll this time? :sick: sorry but you are out of your mind cleaning up after her even once. It can take time as a SM to come to your senses when it comes to these types of disgusting things. My own ss would pee everywhere in the bathroom and it horrified me, let alone poo! Ew. My own "what the hell
Are you doing moment" came when ss (8 also at the time) peed all over the toilet seat, up the wall, the floor and no flushing the toilet and I stopped myself from cleaning it and made ss clean it with DH standing over him.

You werent cruel getting SO to address and really I am surprised she wasnt reprimanded over this before, as thats plain disgusting. Does she do this in other peoples houses?!

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Submitted by Accordn2L on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 8:42am

It took me WAY to long to get to the point I said I'm done, I agree but I think it just has to come to head and then you decide this is bullshit and I'm over it. She is only with us 50/50 and for some reason she uses my front bathroom as a place to be disgusting. I've never seen her do it anywhere else so to me that says I'm doing this on purpose.

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Submitted by Gabriels Mom on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 8:56am

You know why my 5 year old doesn't pee all over the toilet? Because I made him clean it up. Same with SS12. I REFUSE to clean up pee if you are perfectly capable of peeing IN the toilet. EFF that you are not a baby. If there was poo on the toilet or walls I would snap.

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Submitted by Delilah on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 9:04am

Thats says it is deliberate to me, shes literally defecating over your space to mark her territory. I would be f*cking disgusted and embarassed if I were your SO.

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Submitted by thinkthrice on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 9:09am

(Getting out my crystal ball)

I seeeeee:

DH feeling guiiiillllty about disciplining his poor widdle snoooookums. His mind formulating excuuuuuuses for snookums that would ruuullle out her doing it on puuuuurrrrpose...

The guilt turns into annnnnnger at SM and resentment for him having to paaaaarent his snooooooookums.

Over the next few daaaaays DH will say to SM "Why do you hate my daaaaaughter?"

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 9:17am

BINGO!

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Submitted by new to this on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 9:05am

Oh my, I can't believe you put up with it for 2 years. The first time I found shit on my walls would have the breaking point for me. Shit don't get on walls by accident, it's like she is marking her territory.

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Submitted by zerostepdrama on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 9:10am

WHAAAATTT? :sick:

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Submitted by BethAnne on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 12:16pm

hey stepdown, can you (better yet your OH) buy her a child-sized toilet seat so that her ass covers the entire hole and so that it is just her ass that gets splattered in her shit? (I'm imagining your going to inform me that she would just refuse to use it but thought I'd suggest it anyway.)

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Submitted by BethAnne on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 3:40pm

woops I didn't realize, i read your blog after reading this! Moving out sounds like an even better solution. Good luck, it sounds like you're making positive changes for your life.

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Submitted by BethAnne on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 3:41pm

dup

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Submitted by Tuff Noogies on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 9:09am

sorry accordn but you still have a long road ahead.

ur dh looked like he was going to cry. seems he did not find his balls. IMHO he snapped because he knows u are right and his dd is a pig, but it broke his heart to handle it. watch out for super-sweetness towards her later tonight. i've seen my dh cycle through this for six years. there are even the occasional times he'll actually apologize for yelling at a skid.

yeah... :jawdrop:

then the talking....... wait for it, OP. just wait for it. "i'm sorry, dd, that i had to be so hard on you this morning. but you know what you're supposed to do, and we have to keep the bathroom clean. it's not healthy adn it'll spread germs and make you sick. would you please promise me you will do better with this so i wont have to yell at you again??? thank you sweetheart, i loooove youuuuuu".

i hope and pray for you that there is a glimmer of hope your dh might actually have found his balls.

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Submitted by Accordn2L on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 9:15am

I bet he apologized to her after I left for work now that you say that LOL. Damnit! Guess I still have the bigger balls in the relationship. If he straight up asks me why I hate his kid I do not think he would even be prepared for the answer that I have listed out in my mind.

Reading your comment made me think about tonight and I bet you are right, she will be stuck to him like glue GAG ME. My parents are out of town for a few days so I may have to go stay over there so I don't have to even be around those two idiots.

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Submitted by thinkthrice on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 9:20am

Make sure you don't gloat though! If you have the stomach for it, put on a pitiful face and say: "I know it was very hard for you dear, it would be tough for me to, but she'll be so much better for it in the long run" And try not to barf.

If you congratulate or say "it's about time" he will instaneously reverse course!

Chef Boyardumb would always apologize to his kids for any attempts at disciplining; mainly because he knew the mother ship would disapprove and launch a fake CPS report again.

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Submitted by Accordn2L on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 9:36am

I kept a very straight face until I pulled out of the driveway, then I DIED LAUGHING! And the longer I laughed I thought I might actually pee on myself hahahaha. I didn't comment to him one way or another how I thought he handled it. You know I wanted to say something so bad to him but I knew if I laughed or said about time he would probably flip out on me. So instead I came to work and got online and shared my small victory with all of you!

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Submitted by kathc on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 2:26pm

^^^^^^^^^^^^THIS^^^^^^^^^^^^^

If they even think it's what you wanted, you're sunk. You'll be the EVIL SM who HATES snookums.

You have to pretend you're upset about it. Wink

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Submitted by Accordn2L on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 9:33am

Yep, it was finally time and I had only decided yesterday and told him and I didn't even have to wait 12 hours to use it on him! Nice work SD8, you give me so much ammo to work with! I see a lot of bleach in SO's future.

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Submitted by Accordn2L on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 9:50am

I honestly don't know if I will stick around she is that old if things don't dramatically change in the next few months. I am only 35 and I am not going to waste a lifetime being unhappy the 50% of the time she is in my home

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Submitted by Accordn2L on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 10:14am

You know I'm new to your blog, but I just realized you said she is in medical school. WTF? Has one of her teachers not noticed how nasty she is and spoken to her about proper hygine? I mean if I went to a Dr. and they looked dirty or nasty I wouldn't let them touch me with a 10 foot pole!

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Submitted by Accordn2L on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 1:19pm

Usually SO texts me at least once or twice during the day to say hi and hope you are having a nice day. Not a peep from him today LOL. I honestly believe he probably told her he was sorry he "had to spank her" and that he doesn't want to have to do that again. And I'm SURE she played the victim because that is the role BM has taught her well. I pick SD9 and BD11 up after work from day camp so I am going to ask BD11 what happened after I left. I know she got spanked but I just have this nagging feeling the same thing will happen tonight, more pee everywhere, no wiping, etc... What will he do then? He's going to clean it up but how will he punish her? Is she going to start getting a spanking daily for this? And BM doesn't believe in spanking LMAO. She is just bat shit crazy. She is mean as hell to all her kids but doesn't spank them, I guess verbal and emotional abuse are enough. So I feel sure upon SD8's return to BM on Sunday that we will be getting the storm of texts about him spanking her perfect angel.

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Submitted by Accordn2L on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 2:46pm

Yes the front bathroom will now be referred to as Aisle 1! IDK what the bathroom issue with skids is? I think mine was a dog in her former life and is trying to mark her territory on aisle 1!

If you got him out of your house why didn't you change the locks and your phone numbers! I would be mortified if I got skid out and they came back, shoot me now!

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Submitted by Accordn2L on Thu, 06/19/2014 - 5:35pm

Well I picked the kids up from day camp, got them home and I go in the laundry room and instead of just washing the dirty pissy stuff my SO has been letting them build up in the hot ass laundry room so it smells like a f-ng port o john in there. I'm about to go the F off! He is due home any moment and it's going to hit the fan