.... because FDH just let himself get fucked again.

Skid2 (with FDH full time) goes to BM's on Tuesday nights. According to their divorce decree, BM is supposed to do all transport for visitations. However, true to her succubus self, a few months ago she started making excuses as to why she couldn't pick skid2 up. First, she had no car to make the trip (less than 20 miles roundtrip) and her BF wouldn't let her use his. Then, after she got herself a car, she had no money to put gas in it. Whatever - truth is she's a bitch and will try to sock it to FDH every which way she can. FDH has been doing the transport, because he wants the kid to see his mom and wants to avoid conflict. Really, I think he just likes taking it in the ass.

She's supposed to get the skid at 4:30. FDH, who had been at work since 6am and normally gets off at 3:30, realized around 3:45 that he would be stuck there for another couple of hours and texted BM to tell her she needed to pick skid up. Her reply? "Nope."

She's an asshole, and he's an asshole for doing her any favors in the first place.

I called him on my way home from work (around 6:15pm) to see what was going on and how his day was. He had just gotten home, and said that he was going to go drive skid over to BM's. I said "Why do you keep doing her favors? She will never stop if you allow it."

And the asshole hung up on me. Yep, because I am the one he needs to be pissed at right now. Fucking jerk. I refuse to be the scapegoat for his misplaced anger. If he thinks he's going to come home from jumping whenever BM tells him to and start an argument with me, he's out of his mind. Fuck that.