I pray everyday he doesnt ask to move back in..
This is something that is bothering me really bad. SS17 was kicked out of his moms for being a s**t basically. He moved in with OH and me. He refused to abide by the rules and ultimately caused alot of damage to my home.
He moved out cos he wouldnt take the punishment that OH gave him. At 17 (he not actually 17 until June might I add)he feels he should not take orders from anyone but himself. So SS17 moved into an aunts of her GF, who is also his Best mates mom.
He moved there after he caused and denied the damage to my home. Then the woman who I will code TC (temp carer) contacted OH and said that she wasnt happy about his behaviour............tough crap, you shouldnt have let him move in then...........but anyway SS17 ended up back at ours. He refused to take his punishment for the damnage that he had caused and a massive argument happened because the world wouldnt feel sorry for him.....so he moves back to TC, who is now claiming benefits for him.
My thing? I pray everyday, EVERY SINGLE DAY, that he NEVER asks to move back. I really cannot live with him. He has no respect for me, doesnt even like me, an to me the OH knows this and shouldnt expect me to live in an atmosphere.
Ive not said anything, but it petrifies me peeps, it really does. 
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So he just moves from house
So he just moves from house to house and people keep letting him back in? No wonder he continues to be disrespectful and difficult. Once you piss him off he' s gone, that is, until someone else pisses him off. Apparently this is his world, you just live in it.
In a nutshell, yes. That is
In a nutshell, yes. That is exactly what he does. SS19 was exactly the same which is why when OH moved out a while ago, and then moved back in, I made sure I did everything possible to ensure that SS19 got a flat of his own. Trouble was, SS17 ended up moving in when OH moved back too!
Its actually my home. OH
Its actually my home. OH moved in with me. I was really ok with his kids stopping over and such, but then it was a routine of every weekend and tea of a Tuesday. Now its only routine with SD6. We discuss school holidays and such, so we can have SD6 for longer.
That changed within a few months of OH moving in, the SS's stopped coming completely on the weekends and the Tuesdays, but we put that down to their age being teens and not wanting to be around two little un's. We only really have SD6 now.
I wasnt asked if SS17 could come back, I was told SS17 had asked and that he was stopping by later on the night and that was that. I never get asked.
My BD6 lives with me, and it has been confusing for her, but she is kinda used to it now.
Both OH sons have done this.
Both OH sons have done this. Just move from one place to the next.
SS17 is really difficult though. He is really manipulative and guilt trips his dad really bad. OH has previously said to me that SS17 cannot move back because OH cant live with him! SS17 admitted to his dad that they simply couldn't live together!
BUT that means nothing, cos if SS17 has nowhere to go and plays his woe is me card, OH will have him back in a heartbeat. He looks at as they are his kids, so he should be their for them no matter what. He said that he wouldn't stop my BD coming and going. Difference is, my BD WOULD NEVER behave in the way his kids have! She doesnt lie, or manipulate etc and I would never allow it. SD6 does already, as she is conditioned by BM. SD6 knows its wrong, and feels bad about it at the moment, but Im already prepared for the change that will come in the future. I hope it doesnt happen, but I know it will.