Have you ever heard of this?
1500 a month child support for bio mom. 600 child support for her husbands child. DH kids look like crap. Her husbands kid look perfect.
Bio mom & her husband claim minimium wage bc they own their own business. They make a lot more.
Bio mom dresses well, I guess. (Clean, has several outfits, etc) She gets massages, hair colored, cuts often, goes to lunch a lot, takes daughter9 to daycare so she can have "alone time" (she doesn't work, she cheats on her husband)
DH says this became an issue when they were still married. They had two boys, she dressed them well. When she got pregnant with girl she made comments "I won't live in shadow of my daughter" "I am not going to share the girl attention with another girl in the house"
I think that's NUTS!!!
The boys still dress better than the daughter, but not by much. 1500 child support & you can't buy clothes that fit? Shoes that are decent? Non-yard sale clothes? I buy thrift store things--- I have no problem with it, but it doesn't look like it's from the thrift store.
The kids are NEVER clean smelling. 
It's sad. It's not acceptable. This woman has some deep seeded issues. She's screwing her kids up so bad!!!
The stepdaughter9 has acne already and she's not physically developed, so it has nothing to do with puberty. It has to do with filth!
Have you ever heard of a mom saying these things about not sharing attention because they were the only girl in the house?!?!
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Oh yes. I lived through this.
Oh yes. I lived through this. No other female was allowed within my father's radar, according to my Queen NPD "mother." Not his sister, not her brother's wives, and most certainly not me.
Anything he brought just for me, she took.
That would include jewelry from Singapore, back in the early 70's. The 24K gold-dipped orchid necklace and earrings. She took from me.
He let her.
Anything she did FOR me was only to enhance the vision of herself to others.
The real story is much, much worse than this, but yes, it happens.
There are a surprising number
There are a surprising number of women who don't want girls because they want to be the only woman in the house. It's amazing but sad.
I have never heard about BM
I have never heard about BM saying anything like that. I did, however, hear from my MIL that BM called SD a "little bitch" when she was crying as a baby and BM was holding her.
I could NEVER even CONCEIVE of calling a baby a "little bitch" much less my OWN DAUGHTER!
BM has never said it, but she
BM has never said it, but she has always treated SD differently than her sons.
I think it's part of their personality disorder; they see all females, even their own daughters, as competition.
BM only gets along with other women long enough to sleep with their husbands.