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TickedOff's picture

Submitted by TickedOff on Thu, 08/29/2013 - 9:15am

SD18 was wearing my shorts last night but claims they where hers. Mine has a pocket on the side so I know they are mines. She says she will give them back but drives off th school still wearing them. When she gets home I text her to put them in my laundry in the morning. This morning she is in getting ready for class and I ask for my shorts she gets huffy and additudey. " Their not yours and I'm not giving them to you". Ok so I head to her room to get them myself. She rushes up the stairs. I've recently started recovering from surgery so I can't go as fast as her. she runs in her room gets the shorts and throws them at me. I wanted to throw them back but BD6 walks out and I'm not going to do that infront of her. SD drove off to school.

What should I do. I haven't posted in a while so you don't know the level of disrespet that has been going on. I really want to take her name off my car insurance and tell her to ride the bus to school.

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amber3902's picture

Submitted by amber3902 on Thu, 08/29/2013 - 9:16am

>>I really want to take her name off my car insurance and tell her to ride the bus to school.<<

Sounds good to me.

SM with BM from hell's picture

Submitted by SM with BM from hell on Thu, 08/29/2013 - 9:17am

Sounds like a good plan to me. Why pay insurance for someone who is blatantly disrespectful to you in your home.

TickedOff's picture

Submitted by TickedOff on Thu, 08/29/2013 - 9:25am

He says to do what I gotta do and he will talk with her when he gets home. He sounded pissed over the phone too.

Jsmom's picture

Submitted by Jsmom on Thu, 08/29/2013 - 9:24am

Why are you paying for anything for her? Not your kid...Disengage and start locking your door...

oldone's picture

Submitted by oldone on Thu, 08/29/2013 - 12:42pm

I still say to one by one replace her "good" clothes with something similar but old and stained. And then deny, deny.

Or something one size smaller or 3 sizes bigger. You can really play with her.

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Submitted by Onefootout on Thu, 08/29/2013 - 2:14pm

I'd say the throwing things at you in a hostile manner takes this to a whole new level of disrespect. If she has any electronics in her room I'd take them out for a month. I'd stop cooking for her,I'd do absolutely nothing for her.

And I'd also do what you said, take her off your insurance. I'd take her off for good. She's never really going to respect you, unless she's manipulating you to get to pay for something.