After she basically robbed us. I did a little detective work going around to all the local pawn shops giving them pictures of me wearing varies jewelry that she stole and my kindle fire serial number. I asked them if anyone comes in and tries to pawn my kindle go to settings and look at the serial number before you accept it. I got a call from one of the shops believing they had a necklace of mines. It was very similar but it wasn't mines. We used SD16's Facebook to look at SD18's Facebook and found a picture of her wearing an expensive stolen dress of mines but that is not enough evidence. DH went to see if he could talk some sense into her. Her aunt said she thought she moved back in with us. DH tracked her phone to California that’s a far distance from us. That's states away. DH wants to find her. He is really upset that she just left without even saying anything to anyone. She won’t answer her phone she text DH once to say she is fine and with her boyfriend who will take care of her.

I think she stole from us to fund her trip to California and for drug money for her and this new boyfriend we have never met. DH is over the roof and heart broken. I am angry and upset. I feel like the moment she turned 18 a light switch went off in her head saying " I'm 18 I can do whatever I want screw consequences". DH has been there from day one loving her unconditionally. From the moment I stepped into her life I have been there through the good and bad. We gave her the world. It’s like she just turned around and spit in our faces. Stole our money and a few valuables and went on her merry way without glancing back.

So this is what it is you give up a chunk of your life raising a kid , you get married to someone who agrees to help raise your kid, You work together to give them the best life you can, then they grow up and spit in your face and become ungrateful shits. DH is dealing with this in such a bad way. He is so upset and angry and I don't blame him if it was DD I would be completely losing it.