ahh so this post is more of a vent than anything. tomorrow is my sils baby shower and Im just NOT looking forward to going. my sil is a holy rolling bible thumper that think the world owes her for existing(this is the same lady who her and her husband needed a place to stay when moving back here to our city so dh and I offered them a place to stay, mind you we were engaged just not married SOOO they declined our offer because they said they didn't agree that we were living in sin BUT asked if they could use our 3rd garage to store their furniture and also if they could transfer their directv to our house so they wouldn't be charged a disconnect fee... snort). Anyway I feel petty because I feel like as being married to her old brother and this is a first nephew for my Dh that we should get her something very nice however sil is the type of person that expects you to drop a lot of money on a gift for her and then she'll turn around and make you something because she's cheap. I feel petty about this because I'm not usually one to do the whole tit for tat crap but this irks me... I know I need to let it go and just do what i'd normally do and not think about how when I have my shower in a couple months that she'll probably freaking make me chocolate dipped strawberries or something lol.

ugghhh.. soo in essence tomorrow is not a day i'm looking forward too... however my Stepmil is invited (ya know, just for the gift because sil is a greedy a$$, she otherwise wouldn't be invited because she knows if she doesn't invite FIL's wife, FIL won't get her an expensive gift) so maybe Stepmil and my psycho mil will duke it out??? lol