SASS14 finally gave me what I wanted
My out - he gave me my out, right in front of DW. Over the last month, he has taken douchebaggery to a whole new level. In fact, I think I will refer to him as C-Bag as in colostomy, because that's what he is - a bag of toxic refuse.
I flat out told him to his face that he is not a likable person a year ago, and re-affirmed it yesterday in front of DW and a friend of the family that has known him his entire life. He told me "Well, I don't like you either."
My response - "Good, I'm glad we're on the same page. As long as you don't screw with me, I won't crew with you." And then I looked at DW, with her good friend right there, and said "Four more years of this?" and walked away.
As far as I'm concerned, I've been given free rein to completely and totally disengage.
Dumbass will probably wait two days and then start acting like everything is good.
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I'm confused...you told him a
I'm confused...you told him a year ago that you did not like him. then you told him again yesterday in front of other people. Then he tells you that the same and you are offended...?
Either way...you do need to disengage. And that means not telling him that you don't like him. You should be like the nice uncle. And that is it.
No - I said he's not a
No - I said he's not a likable person. I didn't say I didn't like him. Splitting hairs, yes...and did I say I was offended in my original post? No, I didn't. I said I am glad we are on the same page.
I'm no longer astounded by this kid's behavior. I've come to expect the worst at all times. And play the nice uncle? No. I won't. I've had nice uncles and I refuse to engage even that much.
And then I looked at DW, with
And then I looked at DW, with her good friend right there, and said "Four more years of this?" and walked away.
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This is what made me think you were upset...
Anywho...good luck. Disengagement is a wonderful thing.
ah - gotcha - that was more
ah - gotcha - that was more for my DW to understand that disengagement has begun.
Be glad it's just four years
Be glad it's just four years and not seven more years like it would be in NYS!! Of course most lazy-assed skids in NYS end up living at home until they are 26 or older!
I was wrong - it took less
I was wrong - it took less than 24 hours for him to think things are okay.
Stupid ass.
And in your mind every time
And in your mind every time you look at him you can think "what a POS".
No you don't need to act like a kind uncle. Just treat him as if he is not even worthy of acknowledging. Sort of like a penny on the sidewalk. It does have a value but not enough to bother with stooping to pick it up.
Indeed. DW has even said
Indeed. DW has even said that she doesn't know what to do anymore.