LMAO, BM's future DH is a Steptalk member. Hahaha. Awesome.
So, I'm reading a post by another member, and a particularly uncanny description of life with my skids, and a specific description of a recent incident which took place between our homes was soooooo close to this member's discussion.... I HAD to message them and ask, "Are you BM's FDH?"
We got into this convo about the whole situation, how everything has gone down.... What it's like to live and deal with skids. How we both are in this mess together, going through the same thing. LOL.
Makes me feel great to know, he feels the same way I do about this out of control mess. I promised not to tell DH, and he promised not to tell BM..... Too funny, then again, not that odd, I mean I ended up here.... Why not him, he is living with the same shit I am.
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that is so funny...it's sad
that is so funny...it's sad you guys cant confront the two birth parents together. two people with the same issues cant be wrong right?
Well, as far as confronting,
Well, as far as confronting, my DH is awesome, and he and I are on the same page. DH and I really do discuss and confront issues together, we aregettingto be pro's at this shit lol. I do feel bad for BM's future DH,she is doing a lot of the same things to him as she did to my DH.... Good luck was all I couldsay hahaha.
Maybe the two of you should
Maybe the two of you should hook up? LOL
Not my type, but he's a good
Not my type, but he's a good guy..... man did she get lucky for the secondtime hahaha
That is too funny!!! Small
That is too funny!!! Small world! I hope he never rats you out but then he would be outing himself. Maybe you guys should just get together. JK of course!
wow that would be an
wow that would be an interesting situation!! Could be quite handy...or a disaster too though! - devided loyalties and all that, but then you are both uniquely placed to understand the situation more than anybody! At least you are no longer alone in all of this! Great stuff!
future allies are never a bad
future allies are never a bad thing hahahaha
Well, I mean...... it's not
Well, I mean...... it's not like we are naming names..... and, if they are ashamed of what they're doing, maybethey shouldn't be doing it!
I keep waiting for BM's bf or
I keep waiting for BM's bf or my exh gf to show up here, I don't think the gf will as it seems like she's found her niche with my kids and mostly it's going smooth. I'm hearing not good things coming from BM camp though bf is not happy "buying" her kids affection lol
Oh no... ! But, all you have
Oh no... !
But, all you have to do is goole "step parent" anything and this site pops up. Maybe you will get lucky too!
Doormatnomore, Like I said BM
Doormatnomore, Like I said BM got lucky, I can't believe he hasn't run already..... I think she hides all the games she plays with her kids and DH, so, the poor guy is probably clueless..... BUT, not for long.
Im not saying it's ok........
Im not saying it's ok........ and if BM ever, in all the years I've been raising her children as much as she has, acknowledged that fact.... we might be able to get somewhere. I could tell my hubby and he'd laugh, I just wanted to give her FDH some leverage..... And I think one would have to be blind to believe MOST BM's and DH's don't hide some of their comunication from all of us (maybe not anymore etc, but at sometime or for somereason and to one extent or another).
BM and DH used to have sex.
BM and DH used to have sex. SM and SF do not and hopefully will not ever have sex. That is one big differnce.
So, because DH and BM used to
So, because DH and BM used to have sex, it makes their secret communication ok? Or not ok?
Would it be ok for stepmoms/dads to have secret communications with their ex's.... because they had sex?
Or, am I missing something?
No because BM and DH used to
No because BM and DH used to be sex partners they should never be doing secret anything. Believe me I know way too many exes that sleep together on occasion. I have never understood this need to be best friends with an ex. I'm not talking about a casual date from the past. But a partner that you choose not to partner with should not be your BFF if you want to move on.
Having had sex together is A REASON NOT TO HAVE SECRET COMMUNICATIONS. I think you missed what I was trying to say - but probably because I did not communicate well.
Two people that don't even see each other in real life that have a side conversation is not the same thing at all unless it ventures into phone or internet sex which does not seem likely for OP.
LOL, got it!!!!
LOL, got it!!!! Hahahahaha.
And no, he and I do not nor would we ever have a sexual interest in one another. We r just being cool. He is actually training to be some type if therapist or something, strictly professional lol, he did have some great advice though.