ok back to that nasty message from SD
Sorry for not responding earlier had to run a few arrends. I told DH about the message and he didn't believe me so I let him read it for himself. He called SD after school an hour ago and went off about being disrespectful. She was confused and said she didn't add or talk to me on facebook. DH spoke to BM and asked if she wrote it and she said she has no idea what he is talking about. Someone is lying. I hope It wasn't SD because I do have hope of growing a bond with SDs one day.
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If the mom doesn't want to
If the mom doesn't want to deal with the daughter it could be because the daughter is psycho cuckoo crazy. You have to be pretty bad to be kicked out and sent to the other parent.
Sorry about this. I would be
Sorry about this. I would be hurt. And I would be confronting my DH for doubting me and implying I'm making up crap about SD. In fact I'd probably want an apology from DH. What did your DH really think, that they would confess? It's obviously someone who is familiar with your passion for couponing. How many people could that be, and who also have access to your SD's FB account?
I would also be doing my own investigation, including looking at other messages posted by SD to see any similarities in writing style. And same with BM, if you have any writing samples from her. I would want to get to the bottom of this for my own self-assurance. Wouldn't matter if DH believed me or not.
I am hurt that DH didn't
I am hurt that DH didn't believe me. I'm tired of fighting over everything that happens with the Skids because I'm alwaysb the bad guy.
Man - I just don't get this
Man - I just don't get this at all. If my daughter ever treated ANYONE disrespectfully, her butt would be blistered. I can't even imagine why these men see, hear, and read this type of nastiness towards the person they LOVE and don't come completely unglued. They can't control their kids, thats clear. At least set boundaries and demand respect and then if the brats don't want to come over for a while, so be it. At least they wouldn't have to go through lives with hurt, angry women for wives, and cower in the shadows holding the place where their balls used to exist whenever their ex-wives and kids come around.
Yes, absolutely right,
Yes, absolutely right, catmom.
Why in god's name do you want
Why in god's name do you want to form a bond with a POS like her?
Remove asshate SD from your life totally. DO NOT EVER LET HER MOVE IN WITH YOU. You will have this shit non-stop if you do.
And if you do let her move in please don't come here expecting anything but a great big "We told you so."
Why in god's name do you want
Why in god's name do you want to form a bond with a POS like her?
Remove asshate SD from your life totally. DO NOT EVER LET HER MOVE IN WITH YOU. You will have this shit non-stop if you do.
And if you do let her move in please don't come here expecting anything but a great big "We told you so."
She was testing Daddy's
She was testing Daddy's loyalty. I dealt with this. SDs would send me horrible, nasty messages. Then, they would act like they had NO idea how I received them. They would even send me things from anonymous accounts. They went so far to say I hacked their accounts to "get them in trouble".
What would happen? DH would call them out, they'd play dumb and he would "not know WHAT to do because how could he EVER EVER prove it?!" What.The.Fuck.EVER.
DH and I almost broke up over these teenage games. Finally, he caught OSD red handed. Ever since then, they have refused to visit us, talk to us, or have a relationship with DH unless he divorces me. YES... they actually placed THAT condition on him.
They are playing games. I went through a year of it. There is NO WAY in hell you should be allowing this girl to live with you.
I don't have absolute veto
I don't have absolute veto power. DH won't just let me say she is diffently not living here. That would be a fight to the death. I'm going to try to talk to him calmy about this. If we fight then we fight I guess. I'm so tired of being a doormat
Your right dtzyblnd I've. Had
Your right dtzyblnd I've. Had time to think and I need to fight for what I feel is right and if he refuses to care about how I feel our marriage may be in trouble. SD can't live here I'm sorry.
TO DH: Wow. So SD has no idea
TO DH: Wow. So SD has no idea what is happening on her Facebook account? OMG! That could be so dangerous! Someone could threaten her principal thru her account and SHE would get the blame! But then as no one has any idea who would send such a hate-filled message I will be keeping my distance until it gets resolved. And of course if SD moves in we will NOT be having sex again. Just so as not to hurt her feelings. Unless of course you ask her if she minds we make love when she is in the house... just to be on the safe side...
^^^^ THIS! ^^^^ If your
^^^^ THIS! ^^^^
If your husband doesn't have your back fully (which really doesn't seem to be the case since he wouldn't beleieve you when you told him about the message, YOU have to put her in her place. And soon.