Hate Facebook invites!!!
Why does everyone want to Facebook invites instead of real ones!!!! I am not friends with most of Dh's family on Facebook. The only Skid I am friendly with is SS. SDIL is in the whole click with SDs and I'm not friends with her on Facebook. Anyway SDIL I'm guessing decided to only do Facebook invites to SGD's 4th birthday party and since I'm not friends with her she didn't sent me an invite me to the event. I would have never known if Dh's account hadn't been logged in and I saw it.
Here's my issue DH is Facebook stupid and only gets on liking stuff and to play a game he is on. He has not mentioned the party and honestly I bet he never noticed the invite. So what should I do??? Do I point it out to him or wait to see if one of the Skids finally mention it?
If this were a SIL and a
If this were a SIL and a niece, my answer would be mention it if you want to go. Pretend you didn't see it if you would prefer to skip it.
However, it's his grand. So I'd mention it to him.
DH needs to tell his son and DIL that inviting him (and you) via Facebook is not reliable as he really doesn't check it.
I wasn't invited to the event
I wasn't invited to the event and don't know if it's just because I'm not friend's with SDIL on Facebook or if I'm just not invited to the party. The crappy thing is hubby hates birthday parties and will choose not to go if I didn't push him. The kids treat him like crap and fawn over BM's family at parties while ignoring him.
Looks like this party is at Chuckie Cheese and everyone has to pay for themselves. It's not till first week of Oct so I think I'll wait and see if DH mentions it or not. If doesn't a week before I'll mention it to him. Not sure if I should go or not since I wasn't invited.
You would think they would
You would think they would know better, if your DH is not an active FB person. Why would they not just call him? I think it's weird that people rely of FB invitations.
You have to do what you think is best and what you can live with. Me? I could live with not mentioning it.
Let his skids invite him.
Let his skids invite him. They have his phone # right? Facebook invites as the ONLY way to invite people to a party is lazy.
I think I would mention this
I think I would mention this to your husband. I too am not FB friends with my inlaws and like your husband mine would also not mention anything about a party even if he did see it on FB as it probably would not even occur to him that I was not part of the invitation list, he just doesn't notice this type of stuff.
I agree and think it is a
I agree and think it is a cop-out to use the excuse that you are not friends on facebook so didn't get an invite.
That exact thing happened to me a year ago - not invited to YSD baby shower because I am not friends with OSD on Facebook. Really??? That was just an excuse because there are many other ways to invite someone to an event, such as phone call, mail or even email!
Glad I wasn't invited after all.
FB invites and you have to
:jawdrop: FB invites and you have to pay for yourselves!!!! LMAO!!! CHEAP ASSES! Do you want to go???? That's the answer....
My SDIL and SS haven't spoken
My SDIL and SS haven't spoken to me in 6 months or longer. She cried to SS and said I hurt her feelings along with my BD because we said she was keeping their children from DH. She drives round trip 4 hrs on week end after weekend and visits her parents and friends and never even calls my husband to say she's in town. We didn't say that at all but its pretty obvious she not interested in letting him know she is in town so he can see children. Anyway, she's gone all over town telling everybody what horrible people we are but GD is having a bday soon and we got invite and my name was on it, to spite the fact that DH had just received a call from youngest son that he was visiting his brother and they wanted him to come. So off he goes for 4 hr drive..of course, I was invited! Why would I not be invited to this and yet be invited to bday party.? Gift I'm sure. I think she will probably tell everybody that I was invited but DH has decided not to drive back for party and I don't even know where they live because they moved from old place. By the way, my BD and family weren't invited at all. I hate facebook, SDIL posts all these pics of GC. DH and I have a daughter together and she tells me about SDIL postings. Said she writes notes to SS BM and tells her how much she loves her and that she knows she loves their children so much! This is the same woman that gave SS to us at a young age. Our BD says the stuff she writes will make you sick. Why do people do this?