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Dont Tell your Dad I'm Having another mans Baby!

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Submitted by Never said I wa... on Mon, 03/11/2013 - 11:34am

So this is exactly what BM told SD10 not to tell me or Dh. Dont tell your Dad Im having a baby he will get mad I'm having another mans baby :? mind you they have been split since SD was 6 months and Dh is married and has another baby from another woman. She gives herself more importance then she has in Dh life. All i could do when SD told me was hold in my laughter and think poor kid coming into the mess of a life this woman has and coming into a family that is not happy of its existence. SS14 is unhappy with news and says its not related to him and that his grandparents are unhappy with the news, even her Stepkids are unhappy about it. But in her defense she married her ex husband only after being together for a year this time is different she moved him in and his kids less than a yr relationship and is pregnant around their year into their relationship this is what she told Kids therapist this weekend with Dh while talking about he constantly changing kids surroundings. Anyways all we can do is sit and watch the mess and hope SS and SD are okay, we have court for final hearing towards the end of the month but not sure Dh will get what he asked for we will have to wait and see.

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Submitted by Never said I wa... on Mon, 03/11/2013 - 11:48am

she makes it scandalous only because those are her own feelings about her situation since SD comes over telling us they argue and yell all the time. So im sure shes not uber happy with her condition

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Submitted by Never said I wa... on Mon, 03/11/2013 - 11:46am

So when we told Skids i was expecting with DD3 they ran into their moms house the before we drove out of drive way she running out the house to tell us cograts with a mocking attitude. So I told Dh we should do the same. Dh said she's not worth it nor is she worth the attention. Blum 3

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Mon, 03/11/2013 - 11:45am

LMAO - if I were your DH, I'd send her a HUGE Congratulations and thank my lucky stars that *I* didn't have to pay CS for that one!

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Submitted by RedWingsFan on Wed, 03/13/2013 - 11:00am

My idea is if you're legally considered an adult at 18, why would CHILD support extend beyond that? CHILD support is for CHILDREN, not adults. Period. Dot.

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Submitted by Never said I wa... on Mon, 03/11/2013 - 11:47am

jajaja

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Submitted by Jshep on Mon, 03/11/2013 - 11:55am

Our BM is pregnant too. I'm 99.9% certain she told FSD not to tell us. This poor girl has been begging for a sibling since I met her almost 3 years ago. I KNOW she is excited, and she hasn't mentioned it once. (BM and her SO put it all over FB that they're having a baby, and unbeknownst to her, I can see her page.) I know that when FDH and I got engaged, FSD asked "is this something I can tell my mom?" I was floored! OF COURSE you can tell her! It's not a secret! And to me, it's easier to hide an engagement than it is a baby!! I hate that BM put FSD in that position. FDH even flat out asked "Is you mom pregnant?" FSD looked down and away and shrugged her shoulders and said "I don't know...no." And then she asked, "Well what would you do if she was?" I told her a baby was ALWAYS a reason to celebrate and that we would be so happy for her mom and for her!! Still no admission. FDH is going to have a nice talk with BM about asking FSD to lie. This poor girl wants to talk so bad but can't. Makes me sad.

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Submitted by Never said I wa... on Mon, 03/11/2013 - 12:00pm

its sad when they use their kids that way they have no idea how much stress that causes them. Same here with her telling them not to tell us she has it on Fb and SS wrote something allong the line of it being awkward his mom was pregnant, which is viewed by Mother in law and sister inlaw has access to both BM and SS. the brains of Bm is not very big

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Submitted by BSgoinon on Mon, 03/11/2013 - 12:01pm

Oh, this sounds JUST like BM here. She even told me one time (the FIRST time she got knocked up after she and DH split) that the fact that he told her she "has no business having another baby" proves that he still cares about her. BWAHAHAHAHAHAHAA>.. ummmm NO, it proves that he thinks you are a shitty parent with ONE child and you have no business having ANOTHER child.

Delusional.

Edited to add***she aborted that baby, and the next one she got pregnant with. Apparently this is a form of brith control to her.

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Submitted by BSgoinon on Mon, 03/11/2013 - 12:17pm

EXACTLY, and the well being of his child that she BARELY takes care of without having another one to "raise". I use that term losely, she doesn't RAISE him at all... I do.

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Submitted by bi on Mon, 03/11/2013 - 12:04pm

my ex of 13 years likes to think i care about what is going on his pathetic parody of a life, too. bd has been told by his mom to not tell me all kinds of things that she comes right back and tells me. what they think i'm going to do with this worthless information that they feel they need to keep from me, i have no idea. the funny thing is that HE is the one who gives a shit what is going on in MY life! i guess it never crossed his tiny mind that feelings aren't always mutual.

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Submitted by misSTEP on Mon, 03/11/2013 - 12:11pm

Haha - BM here told the skids not to tell us that she was (FINALLY!) getting married after getting knocked up YET AGAIN.

We knew and did a little happy dance in our living room. And I called her getting preggo close to the skids aging out of CS. But I did NOT think she'd find a victim to put up with her psycho ass!

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Submitted by Shaman29 on Mon, 03/11/2013 - 12:32pm

DH's kid has two younger siblings.

Both times Uberskank was pregnant after she and DH divorced (7 years later), she called DH and asked if she should have an abortion. She went so far as to tell him (both times) that she went to the clinic but backed out because protesters were at the doors.

Both pregnancies were unplanned. Both relationships she was in (yes, there are two other biodads) were on the rocks. In fact with the first one, she was cheating on that biodad, so he asked for a paternity test after birth to determine if he was responsible for CS. Refused to establish any CO or CS until he was sure he was the father.

10 years later - middle dad refuses to see his kid because he can no longer deal with Uberskank. Last dad finally gets to see his kid after Uberskank screwed him on visitation.

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Submitted by Never said I wa... on Mon, 03/11/2013 - 7:14pm

Yes, I agree. All i said to SD is your dad and I are married and have your sister why would your dad be mad she can have a baby with whom ever she wants maybe she feels that way about her own situation I dont know. I'm pretty sure she thinks its bad since we are going to court and didnt want her "dirty little secret out"