Uh. Fuck this guy. Get out of that situation. You deserve better than someone who won't marry you because his fuck trophy is a drama queen.

Fuck Trophy that is funny! hahahaha!

My DH and I had been dating for a year, when his older son (17 at the time) realized that we were serious. He went on what I refer to as the "Fake Suicide Campaign." Oh, the stuff he did. I was on to him immediately, but of course I encouraged DH to take him to a psychiatrist. The doctor figured it out right away, too. DH was very calm and encouraging, but he could not meet the demands of his son-basically his son was demanding cash/things in order not to hurt himself. It was disgusting. My DH had always enabled, but my DH does not have a lot of money, so it was not enough. Additionally, DH set more rules and boundaries, and that went over BADLY. The kid moved back with BM when he did not get what he wanted. There have been no more threats, but life with BM is NOT going well. The "friend" parent is not working out so well now. Now, this son and his 2 siblings want to come here. NEVER HAPPENING. They are horrible.

This was one of the incidents that woke my DH up. Had he not seen the light, I would have left. He is still holding strong. His kids have made it clear they hate me, and they want him to support them forever. They are nasty to him, always have been. It is still hard for him. There are texts and emails and Facebook posts that are awful. DH's daughter is constantly saying she wants to "leave this world," or wishes she would disappear....in between drinking and clubbing with her friends. She can go from sick/on death's door to drinking with her ex-con friends in a half hour.

I commend my DH for his strength. These kids are all young adults now, and they seem to have no intention of stopping in trying to get to him. But, he never had a good relationship with them, due to PAS and their refusal to be nice. He has gone above and beyond, and I have tried, but they do not care. They are just....mean and cold-beyond that, really.

If your DH cannot see how horrible this threat was, he does not deserve you. And if his daughter was serious, he has a problem on his hands-he needs to get her help. She will most likely not change, especially if her threats work. Your DH is probably going to be a lonely guy, and that is his fault. Obviously suicide is serious (I know more than most, due to family issues and my past career/degree), but when a person threatens suicide to get an "upper hand," that is a whole other issue.

^^^^ wow. I dont even want to think about weddings with skids. What a f'ing nightmare that will turn out to be. Probably just another nail in DH coffin Im sure.

And the drama of these girls......I think'd Id buy an engagement ring as big as her head and shove it right in her face and mutter Isnt it beautiful CINDERELLA?