Surprise, surprise, Spawn found DH’s new cell phone number and got in contact with him.  Of course it’s because she needs him to do something with an issue she is having with her medical.  DH said he wasn’t sure there was much he could do but he would try.  She then told him about her impending motherhood and how she’s already a SM.  DH told her congratulations but usually you had to be married to be a SM (wink).  He said she then tried to throw at him that he cut her off, he wanted nothing to do with her, and pretty much everything is his fault.  DH told her relationships are a two way street and he was the one always trying when they reconciled a few years ago and that she never wanted anything to do with him unless it was done exactly her way.  She then tried to throw out the whole “Well you hate my mom.”  He told her honestly he doesn’t give a sh@t about Meth Mouth and she has nothing to do with their lack of relationship. She tried to blame us for being horrible parents and cutting her off as a kid.  DH told her that she was 18 (graduated from high school) when he had finally had enough of her sh@t and that’s why he stopped talking to her, he again reiterated that it was because everything had to be her way and it was never good enough.  DH told her it was obvious they had things they needed to talk about, and that he would be willing to meet with her if she wanted to set that up.  He said he ended it by telling her he does love her and he cares about her but he won’t be her whipping boy anymore and allow her to walk all over him and blame him for everything.   I highly doubt she will contact him again given he was able to deal with the issue and is having a letter sent to the medical as she requested.

The funny thing about this is when he told me I really had no feelings.  In the past my heart would race, I would get upset and start shaking and question him over every little thing.  When he called and told me I was calm and just listened to what he had to say.  The only thing I told him was that I wouldn’t be doing anything about the medical issue (since it was my policy that has been closed for years), and that if he can help her and wants to that’s fine.  It was nice to not really care about her one way or the other.  It will be interesting to see if she does reach out to him if they can try to make a relationship work.  I mean he is going to be a grandfather after all and I’m sure he would like some part in that.  It’s really up to them and I’m glad I don’t have any part in it.