Insecure? Immature? Or just down right weird???
Ok just read a post about "walking SK to door" and I had to add my own question.
When it's time for DH to bring SS14 back to BM's house SS14 has what I think is a weird ritual with DH. Before DH and SS14 walk out our door SS14 wants a goodbye hug from DH. When they get to BM's driveway(ten minutes away) DH needs to get out of car and give another goodbye hug to SS14. THEN DH needs to stand by his car watching SS14 walk up the driveway to front door(20 feet from car) and at that point SS14 turns around and waves goodbye to DH THEN DH can drive away once SS14 is in the house.
Now DH has SS14 every other weekend and two days a week so at most SS14 goes two days without seeing DH. SS14 is not what I would consider an affectionate kid more like Clingy/needy to DH. I don't even get a goodbye.
It does not stop at drop offs either. Throughout the day for no reason SS14 will just come up to DH and say "can I have a hug" or just Stare at DH till DH says "what" and SS14 will say "hug". This happens at least twice a day. DH does not Encourage this.
So what do make of SS14 who does this?