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StepUltimate's picture

Submitted by StepUltimate on Mon, 10/04/2021 - 9:33am

Just a brief update: STBXH announced yesterday (Sunday) morning as we were taking the 1st load of the day to STBX's new apartment that...

SSnow21 is moving into the new apartment too! 

Yes, the same SS my STBXH kicked out just over 3 years ago in August 2018, as many of you may recall. You may also remember that less than a year later (March 2019), the mantrum & midlife crisis car betrayal that broke my heart & flatlined the marriage on my end. Three marriage counselors later, I'm done. We are divorcing.

So now DH will be XDH & getting that opportunity to enjoy living with his son, in an apartment without Evil xStepUltimate to bring anyone down. 

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advice.only2's picture

Submitted by advice.only2 on Mon, 10/04/2021 - 9:44am

Well I know it's hard, but really you are going to be so much better. I can't imagine the drama that will surround their lives and any future partners. 

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Submitted by SeeYouNever on Mon, 10/04/2021 - 9:52am

Oh to be a fly on the wall to listen to them blame you for all of their shortcomings...

Screw them, it will be all fun and games and drinking beer in their underwear until your ex wants to bring someone home then his son is going to throw a fit. And then his son is going to want to bring someone home and tell his dear dad to buzz off so he can have the apt for the night. 

Good riddance! Go enjoy yourself doing whatever the heck you want!

TheAccidentalSM's picture

Submitted by TheAccidentalSM on Mon, 10/04/2021 - 9:55am

Rather than your stbEX taking this time to think about what he wants from his life, he's moving in with SS.  Sad.

Aniki-Moderator's picture

Submitted by Aniki-Moderator on Mon, 10/04/2021 - 10:25am

Water seeks its own level. Sounds like they'll be wallowing in toxicity. Keep moving onward and upward, hon!

justmakingthebest's picture

Submitted by justmakingthebest on Mon, 10/04/2021 - 10:27am

It is easier to make you the bad guy than do the work on himself to become a better person. 

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Submitted by caninelover on Mon, 10/04/2021 - 11:21am

They can keep each other occupied with drama.  In the meantime you can move on to a peaceful, happy life.

grannyd's picture

Submitted by grannyd on Tue, 10/05/2021 - 11:08pm

I'm not the slightest bit surprised to hear that your STBX plans to cohabit with his son; they can drive around in dad’s muscle car and pretend they’re Starsky and Hutch. After all, emotionally speaking, your STBX is far closer to his son’s age than to yours.

Yup, the ‘lads’ will need to get all possible use out of that sports car before the nasty Repo man closes in…..