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Silence still from BM and SD

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Mon, 07/26/2021 - 2:33pm

We still have heard absolutely nothing from BM regarding the drama last time SD was here and them rushing to pick up SD because SIL was insulted and told BM who knows what. SD is supposed to be here this weekend. Not sure if we should wait for her to reach out or if we should reach out and offer to meet up with SD somewhere if she doesn't want to do overnights. I really have no idea what BM is thinking - if she wants SD gone for the weekend and is done pulling crap when she's here or if she's going to try to tell us SD doesn't want to come. Or make some other sort of demands about needing to have contact with SD when she's here.

ETA: Orrrr it just occurred to me that maybe we could tell her that we will be looking into doing exchanges at a place in town that offers supervised exchanges if any of the crap that happened last time she was here happened? Hmm

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Submitted by SeeYouNever on Mon, 07/26/2021 - 2:47pm

Wait until Thursday and then reach out about that weekend. Them the fight and negotiation is only 2 days instead of 5 

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Submitted by JRI on Mon, 07/26/2021 - 3:15pm

What would happen if you did nothing?  Either she will show up or not. I always hate/hated to be drawn into any of the drama.  Who cares what she told BM?   What's the worst that could happen?

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Submitted by Jcksjj on Mon, 07/26/2021 - 3:20pm

Nothing other than DH feeling guilty.

To clarify, I dont care what she told BM, I just have absolutely no clue what the plan is or if she's going to attempt to cause more drama if she does drop her off or if she thought SIL was nuts and is going to act normal. Not knowing means I can't mentally prepare and causes anxiety.

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Submitted by Caroline2b1211 on Mon, 07/26/2021 - 4:30pm

I wouldn't accept SD this week-end. 
Are you living far from BM's house ? If not DH should call BM and tells her since last SD drama and spurious lies, he can't receive the bratty home. He should offer to take her to a public place to maintain relationship, but not allowed her in YOUR place, since her behaviour is non acceptable.

Just to know BM position toward SD