Hello all hope everyone is good and happy new year to you all .As the above says disney dad kids have now turned on him and have not spoke to him in months usual scenario drama drama drama call after call he said she said they said bla bla bla no interest in him only telling their pathetic stories ..long story short 2 Adult SD age 28 and 31 never had any interest in me didnt want me near them started off with their BM saying it only upsets them when im around never let go on holidays with us ..we are married 15 years together 22 have a teenage son together and i also have a daughter 26 who my husband adopted many years ago who is off living the dream .when Sk mom and dad seperated the Sd took over from the mother always commenting on something ..they divorced years ago sold the family home and we bought our own home together his ex bought nothing and all the money went slowly but surely Sk wanted to pick their rooms in our new home but thry never came to see us always an excuse on a fri they were not well they had to go out with their auntie their granny bla bla bla dad would call fri night to see if they were ok because of them been sick and they be out playing .My husband not a well man so can spend time in and out of hospital and even than they be calling going on about some drama or other with their mother of her boyfriend or YSD rinfing giving out about the Osd always fights always rows ..Hubby alwways has to go see them in their homes as the calls would be you dont care about us so he would cave and than came the grandkids theres 5 now and the tactics changed to you dont care about your grandkids its exhausting so again he would cave and feel guilty .every xmas and birthday he would have to go up to them to get a presant because if he didnt than he didnt get one actually ESD hasent bought him a xmas presant in about 5 years ,theyve never bought me one or put my name on a xmas card hubby used to go up and collect his xmas presants every year and come home either dump the card on way or dump it in the bin here ,believe me you get used to it and u learn to not care anymore 1st grandchild was born nearly 9 years ago and was baptised the summer that year i didnt go because they have always made me feel like an outsider and besides my dad was very ill (dying )the night of the baptism the abusive text messages started i let it go because i knew there was drink involved but next day it started again so i called her and she said i ruined her sons christening because her dad wouldnt get in a picture with her mum *diablo* how i ruined their relationship with their dad bla bla bla again told her i didnt need this hasstle as my dad was very ill her reply i dont give a f..k so ive been disabling away from them for years than up util 2 years ago my husband was in hosp again and of course they called with the usual drama ,i had to go bring a bag up to him so YSD had called and loves the drama of the hosp so went in with her boyfriend and my hubby said i was on the way so best if they leave as only 2 to a bed but she didnt leave she waited till i got there and played smiley smiley in front of her boyfriend than left called the Esd and she calls hubby abusing him .this has been our life for 22 years dont no how im still here to be honest there was times when i just wanted to walk away .hubby goes to hosp again 6 months later but doesent want them knowing cant be dealing with them and their drama but unfortnatuly someone stops YSD and asks how her dad is well you can imigine all hell breaks loose again and again the abuse starts so i block them on my phone and social media only they start using their boyfriends phone..hope your not to bored yet ,roll on covid march 19 and hubby cant go see them with restrictions but unfortunatly he has a death in his family so his cousin calls and asks if he wants to go see the deceased family with him when its quiet so he goes up (theyve already been)loved the drama and the funerals) 2 days later its fathers day ESD calls to wish him a happy fathers and to ask do you not want to know us anymore calls ends than she calls back hurling abuse saying you were able to go see deceased family but not us screaming down the phone,the YSD doesent call at all 2 days later funeral is on we go to the cemetary stay well back in they both arrive all dressed in black hubby doesent speak to them because of the call 2 days previous ,than 1 meets my husband niece says they were very upset at the funeral because there dad ignored them ..so all goes quiet for another 3 months and than they take to social medial calling their mom dad and me names ,my daughter defends me on the post thy delete her post delete her than continue to send facebook messenger abuse to her when she doesent respond they block her ..nothing since from them i never want to see them again hubby sent up xmas cards with money to each grandchild xmas eve and not even a thanks so noting will be going up again