SD the return....
Sd returned to our custody on Friday. Ah the joy..nothing significant happen except for the oodles of selfies with Beaver on SD's phone. Shocked...nah..neither were we. Pictures of them in costco, pictures of them in Beaver's bed, on the couch, in the kitchen...and on and on and on.
SMDH....because oh yea that honeymoon phase has kicked in. DH's comment was ....boy is she desperate to "prove" she and SD are soooo clooooooseeeee.
Now we have entered the oh...I lwuvvvvvvvvv yuuuuuuuuuu sooooo muuuuuuucccccchhh phase. DH's stance is still to enjoy/parent SD while she still comes to our house. However, if SD goes to Beaver's like GWR DH will not fight it...he will pay the increase in Child support for the remaining three years and call it done.
In other news GWR seems to be applying for every job he can. Beaver must be hounding him for money ....best guess she is tired of paying for his gas/car insurance/taco bell habit.
Onward and upward as they say...
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All part of having a toxic
All part of having a toxic mom. Even now, SS20 will get in screaming fights with BM and tell DH he's never going to speak to her again once he moves out, then two weeks later he's crawled back into her uterus again. It's hard to get away from a mom like this
So true...so very true
As a normal functioning person...you stand back and go WTF....but this level of disfunction is generations deep so its ingrained.
Better to pay more CS
Then have SD keep making your life dysfunctional as Beavers. Beaver likes dysfunction, so does SD. You can not get sucked in. SD could be another basement person
Very right..and thus
is why DH is like if she goes ...she goes. He will be sad that he will not have a relationship with his kids..but he accepts that.
You're right that its generational
Our late BM and SD had those love/ hate screaming matches and reconciliations right up to the end. I finally realized it must be some kind of family pattern of BM's. SD does it with her daughter's, too.
I think your DH has a healthy
I think your DH has a healthy attitude about the whole thing. Having gone through this situation myself with DH and Spawn, no matter how bad it is they always seem to gravitate back to the dysfunctional parent.
Kudos to your DH for being
Kudos to your DH for being willing to drop the rope. If it comes to that, it'll make things easier on everyone. I hope it's not necessary and SD can avoid succumbing to her mom's toxic BS.