But, SO had a moment of clarity today. I have been completely no contact with BM for almost a year. I have been completely disengaged from SKs since February. I literally do not do anything for SKs other than chauffer them when asked by SO. I do not engage in any form of parenting for them, nor do I care what they do, even when they are being disrespectful I just ignore them and walk away. I don't feel like wasting my breath to be bothered to say anything. Since I don't care what they think of me, it doesn't bother me what they have to say.

SO was in complete shock and awe today ( because he is that naive) BM started a text argument badmouthing me, that I am overstepping my boundaries and communicating with the school. According to her she is not getting valuable information she needs for this upcoming School year because of me intercepting the emails.

SO was SHOCKED, by her very detailed argument. Since he is well aware I have absolutely nothing to do with his children. It was glaringly obvious to him that the entire text was a bold faced lie targeting me as a scapegoat. So he investigated further only to learn that BM and OSD have conspired behind his back and without his input or consent to transfer OSD to the school district where BM lives. Also, that gaslighting him with accusations against me was to try and justify this.

It's get better. SO learns OSD has been at his parents all week trying to manipulate his parents into buying her things and carting her to friends houses. OSD is supposed to be at our house this week and lied to him about why she isn't coming. Shocker! SO comes home fuming because of his recent epiphany that OSD spent the previous visit buttering him up 1. To avoid punishment at BMs 2. Get him to buy her new clothes and other things. That OSD was just using him to get what she wanted!!! 

It has only taken 2 years for him to start to see what is glaringly obvious to everyone else.