If you look at my profile, you can read my bio.. for awhile now, I have been questioning my feelings about my DH.. he's a wonderful husband.. good person, wonderful father to his 3 adult sons, DILs, GKs... I have two adult sons, one DIL, and new baby granddaughter... my older son and wife and now baby girl live two hours away. When they come in, they always stay at her moms.. ( who is divorced and not remarried). I think they started doing that so my son didn't have to pick between meand his dad on where to stay. My other son lives close by. Two of my husbands sons, live far away and are here maybe twice a year. The middle son and family also live two hours away. Their mother lives three states over. So when the middle one visits, they always stay here. I resent that his son, wife and GD stay here and my kids don't. I'm also starting to feel a division that we do not share children together. It's causing me to question my feelings towards my husband. I was married before for 19 years. He cheated but is still the father to my kids... now we share a granddaughter. He is remarried to someone who was married before but never had kids. I'm a little jealous of the time I know she'll be spending with my new granddaughter.. as much as I hate to admit that. I guess my question is, are these feelings normal ?