If you look at my profile, you can read my bio.. for awhile now, I have been questioning my feelings about my DH.. he's a wonderful husband.. good person, wonderful father to his 3 adult sons, DILs, GKs... I have two adult sons, one DIL, and new baby granddaughter... my older son and wife and now baby girl live two hours away. When they come in, they always stay at her moms.. ( who is divorced and not remarried). I think they started doing that so my son didn't have to pick between meand his dad on where to stay. My other son lives close by.