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SS wants hair dyed

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Submitted by TLMT on Mon, 04/27/2020 - 7:19pm

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Ive posted a couple times about SS recently. SS saw that i had dyed BS hair and now wants his dyed. For one hes going home in a month and Bm will shave it right off. Im not going to do it although i feel kinda bad because im going to dye my DD hair too. What do i say besides you are going home and Bm will shave it off?

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Submitted by SteppedOut on Mon, 04/27/2020 - 7:26pm

If his mom doesn't want his hair dyed, tell him that? It shouldn't be a secret and make you look like a bad guy for it. But, likewise, his mom shouldn't be made out to be a bad guy for not wanting it dyed. Lots of people don't want their kid's hair colored. 

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Submitted by Nette5 on Mon, 04/27/2020 - 11:03pm

My BS wanted to dye his hair so we bought a few single day sprays & made him shower at night... kept him happy & he could change colors every day

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Submitted by notsurehowtodeal on Mon, 04/27/2020 - 11:55pm

Or use a very temporary dye that will wash out after a couple of washings - just make sure it will be gone by the time he goes back to BM

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Submitted by Winterglow on Tue, 04/28/2020 - 1:56am

He's 15, right? Why can't he dye his own hair if that's what he wants? No need for you to get involved at all. Is his mother going to tie him down to shave his head? Not your problem if he dyed his hair himself.

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Submitted by tog redux on Tue, 04/28/2020 - 9:13am

 A month is a long time for him to enjoy it before he goes back.

BM doesn't get to make all the calls on everything - if he wants it dyed and his father says it's fine - go for it.

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Submitted by justmakingthebest on Tue, 04/28/2020 - 11:31am

There are all kind of things that you can put in for a dyed look that comes out in a wash or 2. I would just get him that so he doesn't get in trouble with BM but still gets to have fun with you!

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Submitted by fakemommy on Tue, 04/28/2020 - 12:45pm

Manic panic is a temporary dye that lasts about a week, but the dye lasts more than one use. I would go this route.

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Submitted by Rags on Tue, 04/28/2020 - 1:14pm

I would do it and do it obnoxiously in BM's face a possible.  Then when BM shaves it off and the Skid is upset you can remind him how much fun you had together doing it and how BM shaved it off when he didn't want it shaved.

A great opportunity to play some BM tormenting games and have some fun!!!!!!

Why pre-empt pissing the Skid off when you can make it a family activity and piss BM off instead while she will be the one to piss off the Skid?

Have fun!

Diablo

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Submitted by TLMT on Tue, 04/28/2020 - 5:35pm

I dont care what bm thinks about what we do here but i know it will be shaved off when he gets home. The other issue is ss hair is dark brown and ss wants blond. We would have to bleach it and im not going to be blamed when it turns orange lol. I told ss in order to get it to blond it would take a couple times to get it there. I told Dad if he wants to do it. Its on him lol.

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Submitted by TLMT on Tue, 04/28/2020 - 5:42pm

SS is old enough to make decisions on what he wants to do with his hair but not at Bms. He could dye it himself but i wouldnt trust ss with bleaching his hair. We could do temporary dye but thats not what he wants to do and wants more permanent.