After reading through DH's complete original divorce papers (BM did all of it herself and 6 years ago he signed them without even reading it!) on the back of the papers where the break down of CS was we discovered that a certain amount of that support was to be for medical IF he didn't provide medical insurance but if insurance was provided than we were to deduct that amount. Remind you SHE did all her own paperwork with a friend who worked at a public defenders office. So long story short she replied to all of our papers we filed with long letters........ and now she is demanding back support from clear back in 2007/2008 when they lived in the same town and had a verbal agreement on what CS would be. Now I know verbal means nothing. But clearly she didn't pay much attention to what she submitted to the court either. Because he has always provided medical coverage for all kids. So by deducting that from the order he is ahead in CS payments. Not behind the 9,000 she is claiming.

And with BM2 and SS3 we figured out a way to keep her to the agreement we have all agreed upon regarding visitation with SS3. She has to sign a paper stating if she no-shows then we will drive to her home to get SS3 and she will have to give us an extra $50 in gas. IF she no-shows 3 times we will then be back in court. If she doesn't sign then we agree to nothing else. If you have followed me you know she no-shows almost 75% of the time leaving us maybe one weekend every 5 weeks with SS3. He has taken her to court twice and she always agree's but NEVER follow thru with what is in the CO. This way she will see that we aren't taking her word for it so she can sweep it under the rug and then ignore us again for another year.

Sadly tonight we got an email from SS15. Asking DH to please ask BM if they can come visit. He misses us. Well we sent an email last thursday. She told him that we need to look at the skids school schedule because that is what she is going off of. If it's a three day weekend and they have nothing planned then we can DRIVE there and get skids. HA! She is an idiot. Anyway DH emailed SS15 back and told him we are doing everything we can to fix things. And we love him and we already asked her last thursday.

Those poor boys. They just don't understand why all this has to be so difficult. And DH is doing his best to shield them from all her drama.