So the BM let SD go to a birthday party this weekend for her 3 yr old cousin on DH side of family. The BM was on this organic kick (or so made it out to be) and would get all over my fiance's butt about feeding SD anything she didn't approve of. Wanted us to use certain eggs, fruits, etc. she completely freaked out when DH had told her I had made mashed potatoes and gravy and we gave some to SD. Since the gravy was made from the powder mix from the store it wasn't organic and went on a rant on how he didn't care about te future of SD. All the books she read supposedly say an organic diet helps support better habits later. And I agree, it's easier to teach a child a better way to eat early on. And we do give her bananas, peaches, cut up apples,etc as snacks rather than sugary candy. Anyhow, I had gotten to the party early to help set up everything. When she got there, she brought in SD and the breakfast she wanted me to feed her. It was a McDonald's breakfast. Now the last time I checked, nothing about McDonalds is organic. And perceeded to tell me it's what she has for breakfast on a daily basis other than when she stays with us. Needless to say I got completely annoyed with her. She had just yelled at DH not 2days prior to that about letting her eat gravy but McDonalds is ok. WTH