Words of Wisdom by my Marriage Counselor

* Always treat your new wife as if she were your first.

* Always put your husband/wife first and foremost - even over the children. A happy foundation makes for a strong home.

* Always approach matter with the children as a united front.

* Get the bitter first wife the HELL OUT YOUR MARRIAGE.

* Set boundaries with children (respect) and ExW.

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Great advise. Easier to say

Great advise. Easier to say then to do in most of our situations.

The counselor told my H these

The counselor told my H these wonderful words of wisdom at our last session.

Only time will tell if he will live up to them. But at least a professional told him! He can't refute it.

All of that sounds great if you have a man that will actually do those things. My husband spent years not telling me that my SD25 was talking bad about me. He finally brought it all up when we had a huge argument last year, worst of our 18 year marriage. Why did he allow her to say such awful things about me and not tell me? Obviously those things bothered him since he remembered so much stuff all these years later. Most of the things he said were from when she was about 6 to about 14. Really? We started marriage counseling right after that fight! I was loving it a saw such a difference but he was complaining about going and so we stopped a couple of weeks ago and I can gradually see things going back to where they were last year.