Anyone want to make a movie out of this?

I hope some of you will read this adventuresome story and understand I am coming into this whole Skid situation from a very different angle:

Mind you, this was not a typical "DH and BM got married, had a kid, then got divorced." They met online and BM created a huge scam as to who she actually was. She even claimed to have a job lined up where DH used to live when she never worked in her life. After convincing DH to help her move across country, he let her stay with him for a couple of days, during which time she stole his mail, filled out 2 credit card applications (DH & DH's first wife), got fake IDs, set up a PO box for the credit cards bills to be sent, never paid them, ran up over $45K, ruined DH & 1st wife's credit.

Before he even knew all this had happened, DH told this internet stranger she had stayed long enough, it's time for her to move out, she left, comes crawling back 2 months later with the news she is pregnant. DH told her he would help take care of the baby but had no intentions of getting married. While pregnant, BM would get ready for "work" everyday and have DH drop her off at a building downtown. She even filed a tax return in order to keep DH convinced. Later, DH found out BM was not going to work at all, but was using HIS and his 1st wife's credit to wander around downtown spending money--while pregnant!!

Days after SD was born, DH (being military) got orders overseas. DH decided he would have to marry this stranger so he could take the baby with him overseas. Fast civil court marriage, BM becomes military dependent, which was her whole intent from the beginning. While overseas and 2 yrs later, DH finally discovered the credit card fraud that BM did to both DH and his 1st wife. DH's 1st wife had e-mailed him to ask for help with a bad mark on her credit that she did not do. DH figured he might as well check his credit for the hell of it, and sure enough, HIS credit was also fucked! After a lot of detective work, he discovered it was his wife--this internet stranger--who did this to him! Well, now that he was "married" to this person, the credit companies viewed it as BOTH their debt. The detectives told him he was basically fucked since they were "married," but he did say DH could have her arrested and put in jail. Of course, DH didn't want his 2yo's mom in jail so he ended up paying the credit debt. Lifetime savings drained to pay for her crime, married to a person he didn't know, married to a stranger, someone he despised...Still, he stuck around for the baby until SD was 5 or 6.

So, you can see why we have very little tolerance for BM!!

DH hasn't offered to let BM visit for 3 yrs because it would have been a very dangerous situation with BM getting convicted of 3 more fraud felonies, and living with any stranger who would take her in. But, this year, she moved in with her younger brother and had an extra room for SD.

I guess it's a lesson learned. There's really no reason for us to have her go visit in the future when it is more detrimental for SD. Plus, the Court Order is pretty weak anyway so I'm sure DH won't get in any trouble for not letting her go.

To this day, I find it hard to imagine a BM doing an online divorce when kids are involved. Then again, she never really wanted the baby or the responsibility because she purposely got herself pregnant in order to become a military dependant. She used the baby to get a free ride for herself...so now that DH got full custody, she has no "need" for using the child. She truly only cares about herself.

I know. It's fucking sick.
Lifetime Movie material.

Oh, and this BM who comitted all this fraud--when DH discovered the fraud she did to him, she faked a terrible stomach pain. BM fell on the floor and pretended to be paralyzed. DH took her to the ER. Doctors couldn't find the source of her "pain," BM screaming so loud, the ER Docs were baffled and decided her appendix probably burst. BM is that fucking crazy that she allowed the docs to operate and REMOVE her appendix so she could have DH feel sorry for her in the hospital instead of facing his discovery that she completely DUPED him and frauded him out of his retirement savings!

Last year, she again found another military man online, convinced him to fly her to visit him, stole his elderly MOM's personal information, opened a credit card with the old lady's name then added herself as a co-owner of the account! She ran up another $20K. Originally, she had made this man believe she needed his help in taking care of her "two daughters." He felt bad for BM and actually wired her a couple hundred dollars for "her kids." Not one penny of any of her thefts ever went to help or support SD! That stolen $60K + all went to salons, shopping, concerts, etc. for herself. And BM is currently $4,600 behind in child support!

She is now 41 yrs old and living with her younger brother.