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Submitted by newbiemommy on Fri, 05/04/2012 - 5:15pm

I have 3 skids. And two out of the three are great! They are truly awesome kids. We had a rough start but now they cry when they leave and say they wish I was their mommy. But my SD11 is still a monster. I'm having one of those Weeks where I really want to throw everything away because of her. I'm still here because I'm too stubborn to let a little girl run me off. But I can't handle another 7 years of her. And I'm pretty sure it will end up being a life time as her dad will never say no to her. I hate this kid, I know I've said that before. I REALLY HATE this little sh*t. Bad week... Needed to say my true feelings.

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Submitted by 3familiesIn1 on Fri, 05/04/2012 - 5:17pm

---HUGS---

I understand. I feel the same way about SS6 - I refuse to let this kid run me off but I wonder if he knows how close I have come. I wonder if DH realizes that one day I might throw it all away because he doesn't want to parent his son.

SD12 will pay the price - her and I get along. My BD12 and her are like true sisters - twins we call them - they will both pay. BD7 will pay too.

All because of an out of control 6 year old.

It makes me so mad.

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Submitted by 12yrstepmonster on Fri, 05/04/2012 - 5:44pm

You can make it. I was in the process of leaving DH. I couldn't believe in a million years that after 12 yrs of marriage I was house searching and making an exit plan.

Bottom line, I wouldn't let skids and BM win.

Find a happy place in your soul, find a way to fuel the love you have for DH.

Ultimately kid grows up and leaves the nest, remaining is DH and you.