So FSkids live with me and my FDH. We agreed with their mother, Crazy Face, she would take them for their spring break, which starts this Friday. Last week she says, "I definitely cannot take them that friday." We tell her that FSD6 has a mother/daughter night on friday. Suddenly, she is available to go. So we assumed after the Mother/Daughter night she would start her week visit with her kids and take them home with her. Instead she says she can't take them until SUNDAY night at 7pm, then asks the school if she can take the other two FSD's to the Mother/Daughter night, meaning, the FSD6's alone time is taken away. Mind you, FSD7 had a mother/daughter night at her school a few weeks ago and went to it alone with her.

My FDH's birthday is Saturday and I had planned on taking him out for dinner. I think the B*tch BM is just trying to mess up his birthday night plans with me. My mom volunteered to babysit, but that's not really the point. He and I also have a couple day trip planned while they're at her house to Boston, so I was hoping to spend most the weekend cleaning up from the kids and washing clothes and packing. We don't want to tell her we're leaving until she has the kids, because we don't want her trying to find a way to put a kabash on it. I'm so tired of her being a b*tch and trying to ruin our time... when the fact is all she's doing is fu*king with her kids to spite him (and me).

Another thing pissing me off right now is she only sees them like 5 hours a week, and every time she brings them home she sends them home with a bunch of stupid trinkets from the dollar store to try and buy their love. She promised them last summer she was going to take them to Key Lime Cove... a water park/resort. Then she never did. She also promised them at Christmas time she'd take them to see Nutcracker - after she found out we were going to take them - and told my FDH she didn't want him taking them with me and so she would take them -then never did. I asked the Skids what happened to that and they said, "Mommy couldn't afford it, so she has to save." So skids come home from school the other day and say mommy promised to take them to Key Lime Cove over Spring Break. On a whim, I looked up the place. There is no price on the website. You have to request a reservation then call the resort and book it on the phone. Im going to assume that it's not cheap. Crazy Face (BM) get's paid $100 in child support because she claimed she didn't have enough gas money to pick up the kids from school 2x's a week. She also works in a coffee house for 12 hours a week... (then decided to go to school all day every Sat and Sun and never sees her kids) I hope she does it, because I'm sick of hearing them boast about the wondrous places mommy is going to take them, then doesn't.

My mom and I bought them each an outfit while out shopping the other day. FSD7 wore her's yesterday and then told me today she wanted me to wash it so she could wear it to Key Lime Cove. I've told her EVERY time they go to their mom's - everything you get here, stays here, everything you get at your mom's goes to your mom's. Around Christmas Crazy Face agreed that we would not transport clothes any more and there would be a set at each house. I told FSD7 she wasn't allowed to bring it and she knew the rules. She says, "Well, we don't have anything tropical at mommy's house to bring to Key Lime Cove." I told her we gave her mom 2 bags of clothes (that she gradually kept sending them to my house with) I told FSD7 that her mom has clothes tehre and she knows she's not suppose to bring things from here. Then FSD6 says, "can you get our swim suits out of storage" I asked why. She responds with, "We need them for Key Lime Cove." I said, "What happened to the ones you had at your mom's house last summer?" "Mommy lost them." I said, "Well, mommy can buy you new ones, and a tropical outfit if that's what you need."

She tells them shit and they ask me and expect me to comply. My brain is bouncing between annoyance of the mother/daughter night thing and the key lime cove shit, and the clothes shit, and the how she's still not taking her kids this weekend even though it's her weekend because she said she'd take them during the week. I hate this woman, I really do. She's a bitter piece of sh*t and then makes me have to rant on here so I don't equally become a bitter piece of sh*t.