So bm called a month ago requesting to take ss14, along with 2 of his friends, for the entire weekend so she can rent someplace and throw ss a big bday bash. First of all this woman has not even seen her kid in 3 months. She pays no child support. This was only the second time in 3 months that she's even talked to her kid. The first time was initiated by dh. She has seen him 3 times in the past year or so. She only lives an hour away.

So dh never really gave her an answer. He said he just wasnt sure at that time what would be going on a month from now and that was that. Of course she got on the phone with ss14 and told him how she was going to get him and have this party and blah, blah, blah.

She called about 2 weeks ago, I guess, and asked to speak to ss. She again told ss all about the party she is having for him and blah, blah, blah. Well, by this point dh and I had already decided that WE were having a party for ss that weekend. The reasons are many that we do not want him going down there and valid we believe. But since bm didnt speak to dh he never told her it was a no go.

So now it is already Tuesday-she is expecting to come down here on Friday and pick this kid and some friends up. Now, again, dh never told her she could do this, but she will assume that he is ok with it because he never said she couldnt. Ironically, dh nor ss will even be home Friday evening as ss had a field trip 3 hours away that day and they will not be back until like 10pm. I have already told him he needs to get a hold of her and let her know that she cant get him. I know he hasnt yet. I am just envisioning her showing up and asking ME where he is. I think I may have plans that night as well. I better go make some!