My BFF is morbidly hurt by her eh,he cheated on her numerous times and even with men! She was completely in the dark.She is a perfectionist and even wanted to work this all out but one evening last year she came home from one of her classes to find the U-haul in her driveway.She has been super bitch to the ex and his new love and knows it. I can't hardly stand to talk about relationship topics with her any more well she has been "pen pals" with a guy in Belgium for a few years now nothing romantic until a month after hubby left and all she keeps on saying is just wait, the divorce is final ,I got complete rule of my kids and as soon as I graduate in may I am leaving to SC after that to Belgium as long as I have a career and "John " and i get married I can move these kids! Uhm, excuse me if I am wrong but that's not possible is it????I don't even think she can move to SC if eh says no,right????? Just a question I thought someone might have an answer to. She got really upset with me and said she had to go and google wouldn't give me an answer lol