Well last night finally had some alone time with DH....I left work early meet him in the garage (pretty sad) and we talked for over an hour on things that have been going on.

It was a good talk and i am praying he does what he says he is going to do. We have decided, with much discussion, the phones will be turned off during our romantic weekend away this weekend. He has also sat SD16 down and told her she will be fine with grandparents and we will be back on Sunday. It was like talking to a 6 year old. She had questions like...

Why do you have to go to this?
Why can't I go?
Why in the world would you shut off your phone?
What if I need you?
What if my anxiety acts up and I need to talk to you?
Why are you doing this to me?

:jawdrop: Were only going away for a weekend, I mean are you kidding me? My child 14 and 21 are both like have fun mom, bring me back something, see ya....SD16 wahhh wahhh wahhhh...I do not get this its like were leaving for a month...Were leaving Friday morning after we take her to school and comming home Sunday night. I mean give me a break kid, seriously!!!! I think this child needs more than just therapy I think she needs to be committed....This is just not normal. And while she was asking us all these questions she was crying because we were leaving....

Today she stayed home from school and told her father she was vomiting all night and felt wicked sick and last night she took her temp and had a fever....That device is in our bathroom in our room, she did not take anything...I can garantee she is going to try to get us to stay home with some sickness she has....GOD PLEASE HELP ME!!!!!!