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I have decided I hate my step-daughter, my problem is not only how is acts as a results of her BM influence, it is now her PGM who is also stirring the pot. The child came home from summer visitation finally beginning to understand her mother is not who she thought she was, but now her PGM is setting her against me, because she and I had a fight over the summer.I will let you know I am very strict parent, do as I say,no questions asked, but she has more freedom here than at her BM's. She is treated like a child here, she is not my confidante or my peer.I also have the problem of trying to be the parent most of the time, because Father works long hours. This is also where PGM tells the child what to do and to disregard what I say.
I know your going to say where is the father when all this happens, working, but when he comes homes everyone jumps him at once going "she said and she did" including me.I know this hurts and stresses him out, and he has even threatened to work more hours, so he doesn't have to hear it. We were going to move to own home and establish our own family away from the PGM influence this fall after having financially recovered from the first custody battle and having saved money to purchase a home, but now the BM has hit us with she is suing for custody again, another 15K to 20K. Really, and truly I just want to leave,but I have no money and nowhere to go, and except for the child and the mother-in-law, our relationship is great.
I feel he won't sick up for anyone, because he is afraid to choose sides. I look at it as eventually the mother will die and the daughter will go on to start her adult life in 6 years and then he will be alone and he doesn't deserve this.
I am being completely disrespected, I refuse to let it continue. So, I have stopped speaking to both PGM and SD,I know this is not the best way to handle it, but I am my wits end.
HELP,HELP,HELP.