But the quetion was for others out there that put up with this crap...I read about the SM rushing to get off work to pick kids up or canceling appointments and driving long distances in rain :O :? PLEASE!

Im not doing that....and ladies you should not do it either! But I understand some BM's may have a little extra dough to actually take yall to court and make your lives harder, so dont listen to me, do what works best for YOUR situation