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What do you think? Sounds to me like DH is making shit harder on SD.

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Submitted by LaMareOssa on Thu, 04/14/2011 - 7:25pm

As I have said before, BM is crazy. DH is currently, as I type, writing up a proposed parenting plan and his modification request. I called him and we talked about all the crap going on. He started to talk about having SD every TWO days sooo....Mon and Tue SD would be here Wed and Thur SD would be with BM Thurs-Sun SD would be with whose ever weekend it is at the time!!!!!!!!!

REALLY??????? WOW! Thats STUPID! I understand this is going to be hard, very hard. BM lives a couple cities away, about a 30-40 minute drive one way. SD goes to school up in the same city as BM. I thought DH would ask for a Mon-Sun type of 50/50. But no. Why would he try to make sense?!?!?!?!?

I told him it sounds like it's going to be really hard on SD. Moving every two days. It's a waste. If you're going to come up with a stupid schedule like that just say screw it and stay outta court and let BM continue with her bullshit.

DH NEEDS to ask for full custody. He said that is his main goal, but if the judge doesn't agree to changing custody to him, then he must have a proposed 50/50 plan on hand. Ughhh..Poor SD.

Anyone out there have any ideas on a working, semi-smooth 50/50 schedule? Any ideas at all? DH wants to come up with ideas and I'm out of them. HELPPP

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Submitted by Anon2009 on Thu, 04/14/2011 - 9:18pm

I wouldn't do moving every two days. I've read about similar situations where the kids were moving every day or so on here and it just sounded like it was (and is) a lot on everyone. I agree with the others that week on/week off is a much better way to go.

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Submitted by LaMareOssa on Thu, 04/14/2011 - 9:59pm

I agree and have mentioned this to DH. He is concerned about the drive everyday to get SD to school a couple of cities away. I wish he could get custody and then SD could go to school down here. It's just so difficult to try 50/50 when people live so far away.

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Submitted by happymostly on Thu, 04/14/2011 - 10:08pm

30-40 minute drive every morning would be a pain in the butt to have to do, but I think having to move every 2 days would be even worse! a school project or school books are more easily forgotten, so if the kid forgot it at the other parents house, then there would still have to be the drive to go back and get it!

and sd is still going to be there EVERY mon & tuesday, and then EOW, be there thursday evening and friday plus the mon & tuesday anyway, so your dh would still have to do alot of driving to her school. unless you guys did the switch monday after school (pick her up from school) then just drop her off tuesday morning then go pick her up thursday after school... man Im getting myself confused just typing it all out...!