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In times of crisis DAH turns to BM

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Submitted by Asher10 on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 7:33am

Things have been stressful for me lately of course.Now I have to learn that DAH is leaning on BM for support during our separation.I had to hear it from BM herself in a voicemail."I wanted to call to give my sympathies about your marriage failing.Hopefully you have a good support network.I know DAH has been here so often it feels like he has moved in sometimes!I guess he needs a shoulder to lean against while all this unpleasantness works itself through.well have a great night! ta!"
I'm going to call the phone company today to see if there's anyway they can put a block on her number so I don't have to change my business number but don't have to hear from her anymore.Does anyone know if they can do that?

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Submitted by Auteur on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 7:35am

OMG What an idiot! She's probably dancing with delight that she's had Stepbrat 13 drive the final nail in the coffin!!

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Submitted by tootie25 on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 7:37am

I have Verizon and they will block any number you want. Just depends on the carrier.

And how old is BM. She from the sounds of your blog she sounds like a 15 year old high school girl. I get annoyed just reading about her. I can't imagine how you feel.

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Submitted by DaizyDuke on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 7:41am

I never thought I could hate anyone more than I hate SS12 BM... but your BM is right up there in the running. I would like to kick her in the teeth!

Why does that damn Karma bus seem to take so friggin long sometimes?? I just hope I live to see the Karma bus run down a couple people in my life who dearly deserve it.

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Submitted by Asher10 on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 7:47am

oh he is never coming back to this marriage.i knew it before she called and I definitely know it now.I don't care if his twig and berries were the LAST on Earth I wouldn't touch him again not even to save the human race and I certainly wouldn't be in a relationship with him.He has really shown his true self over the last few weeks.It's someone I've never seen before and I definitely wouldn't have married him had I seen who he really is.I guess he was pretending to be amazing and sensitive but couldn't keep up the act.

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Submitted by Asher10 on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 8:14am

I hate admitting it but yes they do deserve each other.And I deserve a gorgeous,independently wealthy,never married,unattached mute with a perfect package down under.

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Submitted by Asher10 on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 8:39am

lol yes!But he MUST be mute.It's a huge requirement.Or if he can speak he isn't allowed to say anything but sweet things.sort of like 'how can i service you today my darling wife'

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Submitted by Willow2010 on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 8:15am

WOW!! I think DH would have done the same thing if we split up way back when. I am pretty sure it would not happen now.

UGH. sorry Asher.

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Submitted by newmom01 on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 8:59am

I know you/your blogs You had the statue right? And she went in there and broke it ...and somehow you DH blammed you for it ......Why does he go running to her? Does he not have guy friends to talk too? See thats the stuff that would drive any wife nuts......Stop talking to your ex about us and our issues

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Submitted by Asher10 on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 9:19am

I thought about that but I have to face the fact that he probably is leaning on her for support because she's familiar for him and dogs always run back to what they know right?

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Submitted by skylarksms on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 9:22am

Geez Asher. What a DAH for sure! I'm sorry you have to go through this shit. I would call BM up myself and bitch her ass out, if I were in your situation.

No wonder SD is such a treat. Look at her parents.

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Submitted by Stick on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 8:02pm

Asher - Do you still have the other messages? How about serving BM with a restraining order for harassment? Get her phone blocked, and see if you can have her served with the restraining order - AT HER JOB. No matter how she tries to play that off, she'll look like the crazy woman she is!

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Submitted by CaptainD on Tue, 04/05/2011 - 8:25pm

Honey trust me, your dah is in pain and missing YOU. Which, I know is not really a huge issue because you aren't planning or wanting to work it out, but just know he is NOT living it up or having a good time at BMs. If what she said is even remotely true in the first place. My guess is that she's exaggerating big time, at the very least...just to hurt you more (because it is clear to anyone who reads your blogs that she wants to hurt you, for some reason, it gives her pleasure.) Oh well. In time, she is just going to be hurt by dah. Even if they eventually hook up or try to date or whatever, its not gonna work. They are both selfish people, and they will just fight and hurt eachother. Ha ha ha and that's what they deservw. She's never gonna be happy with him either so fuck her. By the time she finally figures that out, you will probably be with someone who makes you happy. You're far ahead of that bitch... she just THINKS otherwise.

Still, I know you're hurting right now, anyone would be hurt by such a blatant, intentionally hurtful voicemail, but ho hum.... you'll get over it.... and pretty soon you'll never have to hear her voice again.

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Submitted by Soon-to-be-Step... on Fri, 04/08/2011 - 2:21pm

What a spiteful BITCH! I have to admit the idea of my FDH going back to BM if we ever split up has definitely crossed my mind. I would be livid. Sorry hun.

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Submitted by TrulyTuli1 on Fri, 04/08/2011 - 3:08pm

I would get the restaining order......

I did that to an ex of mine....

He cheated on me with a someone who looked like me...if I were retarded.....and was driving her around in my brand new Expedition.......and he punched me in my stomach like I was some guy off the street bc he was mad he got caught.....

after I happily dumped all his stuff at his friends house, he proceeded to call me and harrass me while I was at work and school to send him his damn w-2's, which I never got at my house.....if I did I probably would have shredded it and put it in a box with a pink bow...but I digress

so I got the restraining order..............

he got served at his lil job and also got arrested bc he had a bench warrant for not paying for a ticket he got in MY suv.................

classic...............

OMG it was so worth it....and what made it great was she called me asking why I did that..................lol

then to make it even funnier.....after he was bonded out, he and his new girlfriend were on the news bc she was reporting her kid as kidnapped and it turned out she left the kid after hours at the babysitters, and the babysitter had left the kid with the BM friend to watch because the babysitter had to go to class.

so in all.....if she continues.....get the restraining order and let the good times roll.........