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Submitted by Asher10 on Thu, 03/31/2011 - 8:17am

I'm pushing DAH to go with me on the choice for mediation rather than an ugly court divorce.I just gave attorney an itemized list of the contents in the house.doing that list was so much fun.Insert sarcasm there.Now the goal is to separate these things in a series of mediation meetings with a neutral mediator,DAH,and me.Our lawyers can be present as well to advise us on things that may potentially screw us.I can tell already this will be a slow process.DAH doesn't want to get the ball rolling as quickly as I do of course.He is dragging his feet on finding an attorney and will likely shit himself when he gets served with the separation paperwork.personally my head is spinning already.
There is good news though.MIL,BM,and SD have left me alone recently.It's not so much fun toying with me when I'm in take no prisoners mode I guess.

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Submitted by Asher10 on Thu, 03/31/2011 - 8:27am

thanks Spunki:)Im trying hard to take the weeping emotional out of this to get through it.I'll fall apart once it's over but i have to keep my head straight until then.DAH was given to me by another member here that we all know and love!I think it's DumbAssHusband. Smile

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Submitted by Asher10 on Thu, 03/31/2011 - 8:31am

too late is an understatement.I'm through with him that's for certain.The hard part is i'm still in love with him for all the good things about him.If I see him I still want to hug and kiss him.I miss him terribly.But i have to do this.

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Submitted by Asher10 on Thu, 03/31/2011 - 9:38am

aww thanks!nope no pressure!LOL and you're right about not dealing with sd and bm outweighing the lovey feelings for DAH.I want the best for him and hope he is happy in his future but I know we can't have a future together.It sucks but it's true.