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007Lostit's picture

hahah...not that her 18th birthday will make any difference...but hey...at least I can boot her ass out and not feel bad about it after that.
SD will be 18 on the 21st.
I have been holding up my ignoring Smile Yay me! It has been wonderful for my sanity. She of course still is up to her old tricks and manipulations but I just don't let it bother me. I keep thinking, I only have a few more months of this crap and I am done.
I have been occupying my time with things I want and like and just ignoring her little antics. She has been working more so that works for me because then I don't even have to see her or deal with her.
It is going to be a good year!

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007Lostit's picture

No, she won't get the boot...but if she pisses me off enough then, yes she will get the boot.

step11's picture

What is it with sd that are 18, well will be next month, last one in the house, and the most MISERABLE of all! 2 months till graduation time, she played basketball, won't ride the bus with the girls, but wanted dh to take her home to her car every time, now that the sport is over, she is doing softball, told my bd late 20's that she didn't know what to do. bio Mom, sorry, not got abbrev. right, lol has long been in Canada for 11 years, oh but on Facebook, woohoo! So like she never left? Striving for attention or breakup?

This morning I asked about senior pics, this sat. I have asked all year, and basketball was always in the way, even on weekends. She says to me, does dh know your talking to me? OMG, she now towers over me, and i thought, ok, then, forget it! Last time! I guess I should have make my own topic, it will come, but what is it with them? No respect for the stepmom at all! none, zilch, I just didn't come into her life yesterday, like i said 11 years ago, and it's not been a fun ride!

007Lostit's picture

I so hear you! I have been in her life since she was two years old! I have been treated like the wicked step mom the entire time.

007Lostit's picture

Thank you! It has been a long hard road I wouldn't wish upon anyone. Two months till graduation here. It is going to be such a relief.