Over the weekend, Saturday to be exact, BF went to pick up skids at thier respective schools like he is supposed to every Friday. Only 3 of 4 were at one school and the other oldest skid was not even at her school.
Then he gets text asking him when and where he is picking the other 2 up. Because BM had gotten them/...... Well he cant answer because she has him blocked from texting and calling her, and the 3 oldest who have phones.
So, he just leaves it alone and documents the events in his trusty notebook.
She proceeds to send him 53, yes 53 more text in the next few hours about everything from what happend during their marriage to how I am stalking her :jawdrop: to what a crappy father he is and so on...
Saturday evening, he brings skid12 to work with him, (he owns his own restaurant),and had already asked me for my help since my Bkids were not with me for the weekend. I brought my neice18 with me. BF got to feeling ill and had to go to the ER (allergic reaction). Skid12 wanted to stay and help me and neice18 :jawdrop: Which floored me cuz these kids have hated me and wont talk to me or even look at me.
Anyway, she stayed, we worked hard all evening but still had a blast! She was very yakky about her mom, She said things such as "my mom is trying to make us hate our dad and it has worked on skid16" and " my mom is paranoid" (her words exactly) and "my mom thinks everyone is stalking her" and "my mom has kicked her Bf out 10 times so far" and "my mom is mean to her bf and calls him names" and "my friend is afraid to come back to my house because she witnessed my mom yelling and screaming at my lil sis's 7 for minor things" and "my mom says you are the reason my dad isnt with her and us but I know thats not true cause you didnt even know him when she filed for divorce" "My mom goes thru my phone and my books and all my stuff"
There was much much more, I was smart enough to not bash her mom or say anything other than "Im sure your mom loves you bunches, Im a mom too and I know we can be overprotective at times."
She also mentioned to her grandma on Sunday that her mom was trying to find a way to have her commtitted because she refuses to play along and hate her dad and tell lies to the therapist and councelors and such.
Well, Yesterday I get a call from BF saying exwacjob called and she is admitting skid12 to psych hosp! Her words to him were "she was lashing out"
Is that not textbook words?
Apparently skid12 stayed home from school sick and her and BM got into it and skid said to mom all the things she said to me and that she had fun with me and she liked me.
BM took her to pediatrition for illness and then blindsided skid12 and told the dr. that she was suicidal!!! because she "lashed out" at her.
So now skid is in psych ward, BF of course didnt get informed of any of this til after visiting hours and had to speak to BM 3 times on the phone yesterday because she can call and text him but he cant call or text her. So of course he answered her calls to find out what was going on with skid12.
Now the only way he can see or talk to skid 12 is during visiting hours with BM PRESENT!
Imagine that.
She finally found a way to MAKE him talk to her.
Cause, he refused to even speak to her.
I fear skid12 is going to be angry with BF because she was begging him not to leave her at school on Monday because she didnt want to go home to BM after school. He said he had to go by the court orders.
I fear skid12 and the rest of the skids are going to be so scared to cross BM and go along with all the PASing because the wrath of BM will fall on them and she will send them to the nut house next!!!

Oh and as a side note, Sunday night "a customer" came into BF's restaurant and when his back was turned they stole is cell phone with the 53 text on it. coincidense???