What would you call this....
FH jumps at every phone call and every message (text or voice) that BM leaves for him? He honestly thinks, believes, feels, assume something is wrong with his kids and that he needs to answer. In the entire time I have know him, nothing has ever been urgent or an emergency though BM says that it is when she leaves a message (text or voice). She calls at all hours, though he has written (sent by snail mail), text and told her NOT to call him or text him UNLESS it is an emergency.
Two questions -
One - what would you call this behavior? How can you stop it? (i;ve talked my head off and am getting nowhere. Now he calls me every time BM calls or texts him to ask me what he should do. ugh! HELP! driving me MAD!!
Two - any advise on what to send to BM on FINAL time so she will quit it for the f'ing texts and calls at 6:30am, not just to FH but to his father and co-workers.
I appreciate the advise because I am completely lost and tried of the 6:30am shit!!
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This isn't the best option
This isn't the best option but maybe get your H to tell BM that he is sick and tried of her bullshit texts and voice messages and that until she can establish what is an emergency and what isn't that all communication will be done through you until she stops this crap }:) I'm guessing that she wont like that at all and will still ring him. Your H is going to have to be the one to ignor her and when she does ring and he answers it if isn't important he should explain that this isn't an emergency and than hang up on her, after a while of hang ups surly she should get the hint.