Thanks I appreciate it. I am not sure what I should have done. Homework is none of my business. But, I am a mom and that is the first thing out of my mouth if the kids want to do something.
He says I should not have talked to her. In a normal situation what I said would have been fine. We haven't spoken to her in 5 months since he dropped her off at BM after they served us the papers for the CO Modification. After yesterday and the emails about the trip and BM not telling him earlier, I was seeing red. Then seeing her with her friends fooling around and she can't even say hello to me, I lost it. I am done with that kid. She treats all of us like trash. My son sees her everyday at school, he is tired of it as well.

She is on the sidewalk next to our house when this happens, she should be avoiding our neighborhood. They all should. I avoid theirs when walking the dog. Ugh!!

I shouldn't have said anything. I get that. But, the anguish that that child has caused is horrible. Now we spent the day making sure DH could see her grades online. BM had him deleted from the records. I have to drive since DH had foot surgery. He spent the day at a Parent teacher conference for SS where the BM shows up and tries to tell the teachers that SS has Auspergers or Tourettes or ADD. He has issues, but not this. She doesn't want to parent, she wants to label him. So if I said the wrong thing to SD, so be it. I can't say anything to BM, I can't say anything to SS, DH or anyone else.

So yes I said something I shouldn't have, but after almost being hit last week by BM while teaching SS to drive the golfcart. She was on the phone. Tuesday coming back from walking the dogs and she is jogging and stops to talk to the neighbor for twenty minutes in the road, so I can't even be in my yard. It was my last straw. My tipping point. She could at least have said hello or acknowledged her dog. The same dog she told her mom who told the lawyers that we threatened to kill when she left to go live with BM.

I want to move. Have asked DH. He says no. At some point (6 years) the last one leaves for college and this house will be sold. I want out of her house. We had a long talk at lunch today and I told him, then it will be my time and I am moving. He said it cost to much and we should wait until we retire. I told him no. We can find a smaller house nearby. If we still own my house, it would be perfect. We will see. But, I know I would like to stop running into ex-wives and children when walking the damn dogs.