BM Left a scathing message on DH's voicemail yesterday... I was able to send it to the attorneys email
**The message was left after DH texted BM asking why if SS was as sick as she claimed the night before, did she send him to school that day and the next-She blamed DH for getting him sick over the weekend, because we didn't dress him properly etc.. she sent him to school coughing his head off with a fever
On the voicemail she called him every expletive known to man and at the very end she said I don't give a f*ck what you do, you just need to care for your Fat/Ugly/Homely/Pathetic/Bitter wife!
What???!!! I may have gained a little weight but.... I am none of the other stuff! lol..
The kind of voicemail my husband has, I was able to send the sound bite straight to our attorneys email address, he will "LOVE" to hear how she talks to DH and what kind of beast is currently in the care of SS. I'm wondering how lovely that message will sound in a court room so silent you could hear a mouse pee on cotton!
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Amazing...and this is where
Amazing...and this is where I don't get WHY people put up with these women...if I heard a voicemail like that to my DH, I would call her back immediately and tell her to F#$%#$% herself and to never disrespect my DH again...period. Amazing...Again, if it was a MAN leaving a message like this to his ex-wife, it would be all over the news, it would be everywhere...they'd take custody/visitation away from the father...
When we have a custody trial
When we have a custody trial looming
I don't want her to have a leg to stand on.
Believe me, I wanted to do and say a lot
but that wouldn't help us in the end.
I agree with you I also
I agree with you
I also don't want our actions to mimic hers
That's exactly what happened
That's exactly what happened when we went to court and played some 'colorful' tapes of BM. She has a filthy mouth and a very high pitched voice, it was like nails on a chalkboard.
I got a lot of enjoyment that everyone in the courtroom heard her psychotic rantings.
I really think that she
I really think that she needs to be exposed entirely, although she can't seem to help herself, she has saved most of her nastiest words for DH.
Do you think it helped in
Do you think it helped in court?
We didn't build the entire
We didn't build the entire case based just on that, but that was the evidence presented to paint her in a bad light, which the lawyer thought could cast doubt on any of her alligations. (The child doesn't want to be with her father, the child functions better being with her more etc.)
I think that in conjunction with the fact that we documented and kept evidence that she used witholding visitation as a tool to extract more money, helped show that the childs well being had nothing to do with BM changing visitation whenever she wanted to.
So yes, in part it did help in court and we got everything we asked for.
We have so much
We have so much documentation it's sickening, from the teacher at school, the daycare he was taken out of by BM and almost everyone that passed BM's path- Child services etc. I am hoping that everyone sees exactly what we see! It seems that it would be hard not to.. but I'm not the judge.. unfortunately~
Just hope for the best. You
Just hope for the best. You have done all you can and it sounds like you have a good case, so you can't fault yourself for a bad decision from the judge. At least you tried. Let us all know how it turns out!
Save everything she sends
Save everything she sends and document, document, document.
Call logs, journals, write everything down including comments the Skids make .
We take hours of recorded telephone conversations (it is legal in TX to record any conversation you are a part of without telling the other parties of the recording), several week-at-a-glance planners with all calls logged and several hard cover journals documenting any actions, behaviors or comments anyone makes regarding our Son's BioDad and the SpermClan every time we have to go to court.
Some or all of it has been useful each time we have been to court.
One judge we have been before twice cringed when we came in with the logs, planners, tapes. "Oh .... you are the ones with all of the records".
Good luck.
Best regards,
Success is rarely final. Failure is rarely fatal. It is character, courage and consistency of effort that count. Vince Lombardi (with some minor Rags modifications) To each according to their performance, screw Karl Marx. (Rags)
Thank you! I appreciate the
Thank you!
I appreciate the input !!