I haven't been on here since I was a step-mom and now divorced. I figured all my Step Friends can tell me what I did wrong. Went over to new BF's house Sat night. He has a boy 12 and girl 10. It was actually third time around kids, second time at his house. I got there around 4:45 and he was rushing around picking things up and then had to jump in the shower for all of us to make mass. (I'm not even Catholic) Girl 10 was so rude. She sat at table eating cereal and wouldn't even look at me. I tried to talk to her but she completely ignored me. Church was fine. Just the typical two kids trying to behave. I didn't think anything of it. We got back to his house and all hell broke loose. The girl was out of control. Screaming at Dad, throwing fit, even went over to phone to call mom to come get her. Too bad Mom was out with her BF. Daughter wouldn't go to dinner, daughter wouldn't settle down, daughter flat out told me to leave and don't talk to her since I am not her Mom. Needless to say I left. Dad kept apologizing and I told him don't worry about it. I asked BF if she has ever really seen him with a GF and he said no. I teach school and I have seen it all. If I was in my classroom and this was my student she would have gotten an earful from me. But I had to keep my mouth shut and leave. I contacted BF when I got home thru text just saying home so he knew I got home safe. He just wrote back sorry. I told him he is not the one who should be apologizing and I am not the one who should be apologized to. I text him Sun and he just sent back the typical how is your day. I did call and asked if he was mad at me. He said yes/no he just mad that I bailed. Haven't heard anything else from him. Did I do something wrong or should I count my blessings and be grateful that it is probably over now. He obviously had no control over her and she is completely spoiled. Any thoughts???