Well SD15 & I left home around 10am and headed for Indianapolis(about a 9 hour drive). (Just to re-cap Now as you all know from my previous post...SD15, SD12, me, & BM were meeting and going to share a hotel room.) We arrived in Indianapolis @ 8pm. SD15 called BM and said "we'll be @ the hotel in about 10 minutes. Can you come outside so I can put my stuff in your car?" BM "Sure." So we fill the car will gas and head to hotel. We get there and BM was waiting at her car so we could put SD15's stuff in it. Then we head inside. BM had pizza delivered to the room about 1/2 an hour before we got there. So AD15 & I ate. Then BM, SD15, & SD12 get ready to go to the pool. B/C I don't own a swim suit right now, I could not swim or get in the hot tub. But I walk along anyways. I get ignored while @ the pool, mainly b/c of me not having a swim suit. Now while @ the pool, I get got the pleasure of seeing BM in a swim suit.....not something I wanted to see. I'll be having nightmares for months. So we're @ the pool for about 1/2 an hour and then go back to the room. By this time, it is almost time to go to sleep. SD12 & BM share a bed and SD15 & I share a bed. BM was the first to fall asleep. SD15, SD12, & I watched tv for a little while and then went to sleep around midnight. So, those few hours were ok. Fast forward to 6:30am....we were all waking up. BM was already up and had gotten a shower. Well, I woke up to seeing BM walk past me with nothing on but a fucking towel wrapped around her. :jawdrop: :sick: :barf: BM had the stomach surgery about 2 or 3 years ago, b/c she at one time weighed over 300lbs. BM still weighs close to 200lbs...but the weight she did lose turned her skin into flabby old woman skin. Oh and can't forget that when she walked past me, she looked like a guy b/c her surgery caused her to be flat chested & her boobs became flabs of skin or as SD15 says "sagin bags that reach her waist". Plus BM had the towel wrapped so tight that it caused her skin on her back to roll out over the towel. I hated what I had just seen, but had to point out BM's flaws to all of you even though I get sick every time I or anyone else mentions what happened. :sick: OK, now I was still half asleep and could not believe that BM had just done that. So then BM continues to walk to her side of the room and she starts to get dressed and @ that point...I'm staring at SD12 & SD15 fixing their hair to keep my mind off of what BM is doing less than 10 feet away. While this was going on, I have SD12 & SD15 saying "Boy mom you're sagin even more than before. LOL!" I just wanted to die. I could not believe what BM was doing. Atleast I went into the bathroom to change for bed the previous night and then go into the bathroom to change that morning when I got my shower. Then SD15 saw BM's make-up and said "mom are you putting make-up on?" BM "yes." SD15 "it's about time you cover up your ugliness." BM said nothing. SD15 "I'm just kidding mom, no not really though. lol" Then when SD15 saw I put on a little foundation, mascara, and a neutral lipgloss...said "Wow mom you look pretty." I was like "thank you." BM again was silent. So after everyone was ready, we went to the hotels free breakfast. After we were all done eating, we went out to our cars to leave. I said my good byes to Skids and wished them a Merry Christmas and a see ya in 6 days. Then BM walked over after Skids got into BM's car and BM HUGGED ME!!! and said thanks for bringing SD15 and have a Merry Christmas and a safe trip home. This is the second time in 2 weeks that BM has hugged me. This is not a some thing I want to keep happening. BM has made the last 10 years of my life a living hell and now b/c of what happened to SD15, I'm supposed to act like everything is ok and that BM's my BFF. Don't think so! After that, I got in my car and headed home. I got home and told DH what happened. And his comment...."see aren't you glad that it happened to and not me if I would have went to meet BM." I was like "no I'm not happy & if you would have went to meet at the drop off, you would have dropped SD15 off and then came home, not share a hotel room with BM." Well I can't remember anything else happening, but if I do I'll post it.